You and I are used to each other,
After all, it’s been five years since we’ve been united with you.
So suddenly those feelings arose
And they covered both of them completely.
We've been together side by side for five years now,
There is something to remember and something to tell,
But I can be ridiculous and timid,
And it’s easier for me to write about feelings.
I still admire you
And I’m ready to carry you in my arms,
I'm happy with my fate
After all, she was born in dreams...
Our union continues for five years!
Let the fairy tale together never end,
Let dreams and deeds be common,
And life will be happiness, full of love!
Let's build a house and have children,
We will be proud of our family.
May our joy be overflowing,
Everything will be fine, trust me and know it!
Today you can look back
A whole five years ago
And smile with surprise
Overcoming obstacles!
A period to remember between us
And quarrels and passionate reconciliations.
There's no way to say this in words,
This is beyond dimensions!
Today is an important holiday for two -
It's been five years since you and I have been together.
I can’t imagine my days without you,
And I tell you this without flattery.
We're like family. And I love you.
We are very tightly connected by fate.
I thank heaven for you!
Today the whole world is just ours with you!
My boy, dear and beloved,
You and I have been together for five years.
We've seen a lot together
And happiness, and some troubles.
There were round dances of bright days,
And we fell in love more deeply.
So let us be every year
We are even closer and dearer.
To meet you together
It's our centenary!
Today seems to be a normal day.
Let it be for someone - not for us,
After all, about five years ago we personally
I met you until now
Let's keep the spark close to our hearts,
Which gave way to the fire of love.
And we firmly believe that only happiness
What awaits us is ahead.
5 years... Just think,
So much time with you.
You are my passion, my desire,
A reality that was a dream.
It's comfortable and cozy with you,
I want to start a family with you.
We are never bored together
We can chat about everything.
With you I will meet joy, sorrow,
We can handle all problems.
Happy anniversary to my love
I sincerely want to congratulate you!
We have been together for 5 years.
We have woven a bouquet from feelings:
It contains daisies and roses,
There is happiness, there were also tears.
We were able to overcome everything -
Potholes and all the turns.
I'm happy that I'm loved.
I really need you, my dear.
I wish that we could do everything
And we would go through life together.
Our love has already been five years old,
We are also close to each other
Everyone's eyes are also shining
And the wires beat in the heart!
Mutual feelings, goodness -
There is nothing more expensive.
Let's store the priceless treasure
And be happy together!
Thank you for putting up with my troubles for five years
And you give me care, loyalty and love.
We couldn't survive alone
Falling in love with you is a joy again and again.
I promise to love you faithfully
Take care of our happiness.
After all, I can’t live a day without you,
I will drive away all bad weather from relationships!
5 years have passed since then
How did fate bring you two together?
How the relationship started
A little more and family!
I wish you patience
So that your passion does not fade away,
May love always reign,
And don't yell at each other!
Today we meet the dawn,
We remember how we met.
Not a year has passed, years have passed,
But we are together, as we were then.
We managed to survive everything
And forget all the bad things.
We saved our love
And now we live happily.
We've known each other for five years,
But the dawn of love did not pass.
And we will be for many years in a row
Celebrate all anniversaries!
Today we celebrate our anniversary,
We are celebrating five years in a relationship.
And together we remember
How we met you a long time ago.
It's always fun together with you,
And often we walk in the rain.
And we love walks in the moonlight,
We are inseparable even in our dreams.
Our love has already been five years old,
Your thoughts and views are close to me,
Native eyes and thoughtful look,
Incomparable waterfall feelings!
We are a couple, friends and loved ones,
You and I are unique!
May our life be wonderful
Rich, interesting!
We've been happy for five years
And this is not the limit at all,
I believe what awaits us with you
Happy, joyful lot.
We love each other dearly
Always ready to support
You are me, I am you,
What more could fate wish for?
Today our couple turns five!
Happy, wonderful years.
Where every day and every hour
He was warmed by love.
We have become very close to you,
They grew into each other.
And if it’s bad alone,
And it hurts.
I wish you and I can live together
All the days that God gives us.
As long as we love, never
He won't separate us.
I recently met you,
And they became very close friends.
Over time we fell in love with each other,
Best friends came to the wedding!
And today we celebrate the date:
Five years have already passed since then.
I can't believe where they came from
It seems like just yesterday!
Our union is strong, loving, sacred
And we will continue to protect.
And we won’t even have time to look back,
How will we celebrate the anniversary again!
Five! What an anniversary!
Hug me quickly!
Kiss and caress!
Five years old - this is paradise!
Years of joy and happiness,
And we don’t need bad weather!
You love me always
And reciprocating,
We will continue to live in love,
Catch the kisses!
Let's be together and love,
Let the blood always excite!
One thousand eight hundred twenty-five days
You are in my happy life!
We love sincerely and understand
Pranks, insults, sometimes we forgive.
I have confidence that you are my person,
I can go through a whole century with you,
Dream and strive for the best,
Achieve everything you want!
I congratulate you on our fifth anniversary,
I send you a kiss in congratulations,
I will hug you when I meet you,
I’ll whisper that I love you!
And I also wish us,
Divide everything in half,
And always be indivisible,
Also reverently, tenderly love!
Today we celebrate five years with you,
My head is spinning with joy!
Love still intoxicates us,
And happiness will never leave!
We love each other even more
And thoughts and words became deeper.
It's great that in this dark world
Self-love has bound us forever!
Five years have flown by in one moment,
I once found happiness next to you.
Since then, a lot has changed in the world,
But not my beloved!
Just as desirable, beautiful,
That girl from my sweet dreams.
I did everything and we are happy now
And complete love is with us.
I congratulate you, precious one,
After all, they saved their feelings.
From all the winds and fogs,
We took them with us.
You and I are used to each other
You and I are used to each other,After all, it’s been five years since we’ve been united with you.
So suddenly those feelings arose
And they covered both of them completely.
We've been together side by side for five years now,
There is something to remember and something to tell,
But I can be ridiculous and timid,
And it’s easier for me to write about feelings.
I still admire you
And I’m ready to carry you in my arms,
I'm happy with my fate
After all, she was born in dreams...
Imagine the sun that you see
Imagine: the sun that you seeIt doesn’t warm you with happiness like you do now!
And straight to yourself
Pull me closer quickly
Lighting up everything around with the sparkle of the eyes.
Luxurious holiday for two
I'm sharing it with you now.
We are five whole years old
We can't imagine living apart.
And I have something to admit, I won’t hide it:
I just don’t get tired of loving you!
Five years of relationship is like wine -
Five years of relationship is like wine -Aged, strong, intoxicating,
And we realized a long time ago -
Everything with you and me is real.
And further we will
Only drunker from our feelings
Wild and passionate
Let's fill our glasses
Full of invigorating wine from love!
Today you can look back
Today you can look backA whole five years ago,
And smile with surprise
Overcoming obstacles!
A period to remember between us
And quarrels and passionate reconciliations.
But THIS cannot be said in words,
It is beyond dimensions!
Today seems like a normal day
Today seems like an ordinary day,Let it be for someone, certainly not for us,
After all, five years ago, as usual,
We have met until now
Let's keep the spark close to our hearts,
What gave way to the fire of love,
And we firmly believe that only happiness
What awaits us is ahead.
Let me ask you, is 5 years a long time?
Let me ask you, is 5 years a long time?And how much more awaits us ahead.
I want us to have a common road,
And an inexhaustible sea of love.
You and I have already been through so much,
5 years, this is just the beginning of the journey,
I want us to love each other forever,
And you continued to bloom like a rose.
My boy, dear and beloved
My boy, dear and beloved,You and I have been together for five years.
We've seen a lot together
And happiness, and some troubles.
But they became closer and dearer,
And we fell in love more deeply.
So let us be every year
We are getting closer and closer and closer.
To meet you together
It's our centenary!
There comes a time in any family when tense relationships begin to develop. The spouses begin to break down and create scandals. The first serious moments of quarrels occur after 3, 5 and 7 years of living together.
Signs of a crisis
The main signs of a crisis in family relationships:
- Unmotivated aggression or indifference;
- Loss of sexual desire;
- Decreased interest in each other.
The manifestation of signs is accompanied by aggressive behavior of people. Partners descend into scandals, argue, destroy household items, and even resort to assault. Or they withdraw into themselves, maintaining order “on the façade”, and at the same time suffering in the soul.
The most dangerous problem is habit. Big things are seen from a distance and the husband forgets why his wife once fascinated him, and the wife does not understand how this man, wandering around the apartment in his underwear, could once have been the standard of masculinity and reliability. Fatigue and complaints accumulate. Couples with children face the same problems, albeit in a different way. A child unites and prevents boredom, but at the same time deprives the husband and wife of the opportunity to strengthen their own union.
Statistics
According to divorce statistics in Russia, couples break off relationships after 5 years. According to divorce statistics, most couples who have lived together separate within 5 to 9 years of marriage (28%).
It turns out after 5 years of living together, most couples separate.
Causes
After 5 years, a turning point begins when the relationship of the married couple is decided. If you overcome this moment, the relationship will go uphill, but many break up at this stage.
The reasons may be different. Men and women have different views on life, which contributes to conflicts. It is worth examining the causes of conflicts in both sexes of married couples. The most common:
For men:
- Unsatisfied sexual need;
- Unpreparedness to have children, although for any paired sexual union it is normal and correct after a certain time to move on to the next stage - the birth of children. The “fruits” of the union are not necessarily children; it can be any product that requires tireless attention, care, development, and responsibility. For example, a joint business. If there is no such binding, unifying force that confirms: “the union is fruitful,” then it is quite natural that people begin to feel the need to find something more effective and the couple begins to rush towards separation.
- Excessive emphasis of the wife on the child. Surprisingly, excessive expression of maternal feelings increasingly leads couples to a family psychologist.
For women, the reasons are somewhat different. Although the first one - dissatisfaction with sex - is no less often than among men the cause of conflicts. The trick is that women are less likely to recognize sexual frustration. Many of them do not experience orgasm, and at the same time they believe that everything is normal. But you can't fool the body. Unreasonable irritability, nagging at her husband, coldness may indicate that this is the reason for the woman’s dissatisfaction.
Many women lack foreplay, which, as we know, begins for them long before sex itself. Male attention, small pleasant surprises, positive comments about her appearance, going out in public where you can dress beautifully and show yourself - if the husband does not give this, the woman begins to feel like a flower that lives on the north window and does not see the sun.
How to overcome a family crisis
Ways to overcome:
- Finding common hobbies;
- Joint entertainment;
- Using compromises in quarrels;
- Division of space.
It is quite possible to overcome a relationship crisis after 5 years spent together. Psychologists recommend starting to get to know your significant other again. Listen to the stories of your interlocutor, find common hobbies.
Even better - not a hobby, but a common cause.
Don't be offended for long should learn to resolve conflicts immediately and learn to ask for forgiveness. Household and childcare responsibilities should be divided equally so that both family members can take a break from household responsibilities. It is possible to send children to relatives for the weekend, and go to the cinema, theater, or museum themselves.
Don't forget about spending time together and, after all, it is joint entertainment that brings people together. In your free time, you can sign up for a fitness club, swimming pool, dance club, the main thing is to find something that will be interesting to both, or compromise: you give me an evening at the theater, I’ll go to airsoft with you.
Not worth it reproach your spouse for the desire to spend the evening with friends, going fishing. Reproaches are generally a very dangerous line of behavior; ideally, they should make up no more than 1% of everything that a wife says to her husband.
U everyone should have their own space. Let one play games on the computer, and the second read books, no one will disturb anyone, and everyone is passionate about their own business.
Decision-making
If the decision to overcome the crisis is mutual and neither wants to part, then we need to act. It is worth having a joint conversation with your spouse. Some people who have been together for a long time play a game of “Hot Chair” every few years. True, such a game was created for large companies, but it is openness and honesty that allow people to get to know each other better, which is the key to long-term relationships.
Hot seat game
Before the game starts, the players discuss the conditions. Everyone must promise that they will not change their attitude towards another person. One of the spouses sits down on a chair, at this time the second begins to talk about his bad character traits, bad habits and express everything that he does not like about this person.
After all the negativity has been thrown out, it’s worth telling your interlocutor about his positive qualities. After the game, participants can calmly discuss their bad sides and discuss ways to eliminate them, find compromises. This game provides an opportunity for spouses to get to know themselves better in order to remove the mask of idealism and see their own shortcomings. The main thing is not to turn this into a quarrel, but to reach the end and look for ways out of the situation. People are able to change their habits in order to maintain love in their own home.
Other crises
Crisis of one year of relationship– one of the strongest, since neither one simply has time to get used to his partner. One wants to change the other, the other does not want to change at all. Two different people come together, and compromises have to be found.
Crisis of three years mainly occurs due to the birth of children. The husband is not ready for fatherhood, and the mother pays attention only to her child. Therefore, scandals constantly occur in the house, aggravated by the unstable financial situation in the family. Another reason for this crisis is the natural fading of romantic feelings and the transition of relationships to a new stage: not lovers, but loving ones.
Seven Years Crisis– this is getting used to each other. Everyone wants something new, but life has become monotonous and dull. Life passes around the child, and parents begin to earn money for education, clothing, and educational games. People forget about their own needs.
Fourteen Years Crisis considered the most dangerous. Basically, everything happens due to a decrease in sexual activity. The male gender is trying to find a solution to the problem. Sometimes it comes to experimenting with different girls. After this, men often find new companions and start another family. You should not blame your spouse for cooling off; it is better to offer your help, or contact a sexologist to find a solution.
Video consultation
Denis Kostash talks about ways to overcome family crises.
What is the best way to congratulate a guy on your relationship anniversary in your own words? This page of our website contains texts that can be used as the basis for your own congratulations.
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Dear, please accept my congratulations on the anniversary of our relationship! I want to thank you for the happy moments that have become minutes, hours, days, weeks. After all, there is no greater joy than realizing that a person dear to your heart is nearby... I believe that many years later we will still remember and celebrate the anniversary of our relationship along with other common dates. Love you!
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Darling, how good it is that we met! Perhaps this is fate, and everything should have been exactly this way and no other way. And I’m happy that everything happened exactly this way. Sometimes I get scared thinking that if something had gone wrong that day, we would never have known each other. I want to admit that I love you very much from the very minute we met, and I’m glad that it’s mutual.
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Darling, you and I have been together for a long time, but when you are near, the days fly by like seconds! On our anniversary, I congratulate you and admit that I have never regretted my choice.
How to congratulate a guy on your relationship anniversary in your own words?
Tell him how dear he is to you, how much you love him, emphasize his positive qualities. Believe me, your efforts will not be in vain, and your loved one will arrange a wonderful holiday for the two of you on this day.
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My dear, beloved person! Exactly a year has passed since you and I started dating. It flew by in a flash, and it was the best moment of my life. We had a lot during the year, and we were able to survive everything, cope with everything. Thank you for being in my life, thank you for giving me your attention and love every day. I also really love you!
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Darling, congratulations on your holiday! Of course, you already know that I love you, but on this day I want to say such words as often as possible. You are the best person in the world, whom I can always rely on and lean on in difficult times. You will always come to the rescue, support me, give advice. Thank you for being in my life!
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Thank you for being in the world, my beloved, for appearing in my life. I want to be with you forever! I don’t need anyone else besides you, sometimes I even forget about my friends, but I never forget about you! You are always in my thoughts, you are the most precious thing I have! You are very dear to me! Happy Anniversary!
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Darling, I sincerely wish you to be happy with me. I am sure that we will have enough understanding, patience and strength to overcome all difficulties together and keep the beautiful flower called Love blooming!
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Expensive! I congratulate you on our holiday. I could list for a long time how smart, beautiful, kind and wonderful you are. I don’t know what I like more about you, and who cares. Only one thing matters: I love you.
May everything be good in our relationship for many, many years to come!
What should be your boyfriend's anniversary greeting? Your declaration of love, warm and tender words will become the most important and desired gift for him on this day. Do not skimp on expressing your feelings - and your relationship will last a long time.
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Happy anniversary to you, my other half! You are the most amazing miracle I have ever met. I thank fate for intertwining our life paths. You are my happiness, my incentive and my inspiration! May our relationship continue to be as bright and cloudless! I love you so much!
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There is no better person on earth than you. You are the best, the kindest and the most gentle, and you are mine! I congratulate you on the year of our serious relationship and want to wish it to become something more. I love you very, very much and I miss you already.
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Darling, from our first meeting I realized that my happiness is you! All my love, tenderness, my soul and heart belong to you! It is no longer possible to imagine that we were once complete strangers to each other. And now my whole universe comes down to your presence next to me... I wish you all the most wonderful things, and may our fairy tale never end. Happy holiday, dear!
Words of congratulations to the guy on the anniversary of the relationship
How should a congratulations sound for a guy on the occasion of a relationship anniversary? He will be pleased to find a note with declarations of love or receive an SMS with similar content. Or you can accompany your gift to him with a postcard where you write your wishes.
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I never thought that it was possible to know someone well and at the same time understand that there is still so much unsolved about this person. I never realized that the words “I love you” every time could sound as if for the first time... I have never met a person with whom hours would fly by like minutes, and with whom I would never want to part... Darling, I have never loved anyone the way I love you. Happy anniversary, darling!
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Exactly a year has passed since you and I started dating. And I will remember each of these days for the rest of my life, because it was the best year of my life. I remember our every parting in the evenings, I remember our every kiss, I remember every moment of our meetings. Happy anniversary and I want you to know that I love you more than anyone in the world.
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What a wonderful day today! It was on this day exactly a year ago that we met you. Now I have no doubt at all that heaven ordered it this way, because this meeting brought unforgettable and exciting moments into my life and transformed the world around me. Thank you for being there for me!
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My love! I am warmed by the rays of our love, which once flared up from a spark that slipped between us and became a fire that continues to warm us with its warmth. And I am sure, my dear, that we will not let this fire go out, but we will only let it flare up stronger. Thank you for being there!
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Dear, congratulations on the anniversary of our acquaintance! Do you know what's surprising? The days of our meetings fly by quickly, and at the same time it seems that we have been together for an eternity. And I know for sure that even eternity will not be enough for me with you! I can’t predict exactly how our life will turn out. But I know for sure that everything will be fine with us!
