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Condolences. How to sincerely express condolences to the relatives of the deceased? Short words of grief over death and support in difficult times. "My condolences…"

Words of grief and support in difficult times

Sincere words of sorrow and sensitive behavior express a willingness to share grief, support a neighbor with their presence or shared memory of the deceased. What is even more important is action participation, willingness to help, give your time and effort to a friend or friend at a time when he is vulnerable, depressed and needs participation. It’s good if you can guess what exactly it is: material assistance, organizational, physical. Maybe you need a ride or shelter for someone for a couple of days. Offer your services For example:

• How can I help you these days?
• If/when you need anything, contact me right away!
• A lot has fallen on you right now. What can I do for you?
• I think you might need some help. I would like to participate.

My condolences…

How to find the right words of grief? If you know the relatives of the deceased closely, then it is better to think of a more personal, personal sympathetic phrase. While thinking through words of condolences, we recommend that you look. Each obituary ends with words of condolences from the celebrity's family and friends. We have given some words of condolences to celebrities at the end of this article. The website “Making Monuments.ru” provides 100 specific examples words of sorrow on the occasion of death.

Accept my condolences!

Delicacy and sincerity- this is what you need to remember when pronouncing words of sympathy. In grief, the feeling of sincerity and falsehood intensifies. Feel free to select in advance, and Housesrepeatedlyaloudtalk phrase of condolences. This will allow the right moment not to think about the wording and concentrate on the person and circumstances. Don't be shy about your feelings. If you want to hug a friend, touch her shoulder or hug her; shake a friend’s hand – shake it. A tear rolls down - don’t turn away, but brush it away. Take a bag of clean napkins with you - they may be useful to you or someone present.

Death is the final reconciliation... If you harbor a grudge against the deceased, find strength in yourself forgive. Having cleansed your soul and thoughts of negativity, words of sympathy will sound from the heart, sincerely! If you had a conflict with the deceased, then sincere regret, an apology, and a request for forgiveness will be in order.

Examples of short verbal condolences

Format verbal condolences depends on the context. In a close circle, you can allow soulful. But at a funeral or, during a farewell to the body or during a funeral service, only short sayings. Many more invitees must express their condolences.

• [Name] was a man of great soul. We sincerely sympathize with you!
• Be strong!/(Be strong, friend)!
• He was a bright/kind/powerful/talented person. An example for all of us. We will always remember!
• I loved him/(her)/[Name]. My condolences!
• How much good she did for her neighbors! How she was loved and appreciated during her lifetime! With her passing, we lost a piece of ourselves. We really feel for you!
• This is a tragedy: we are in great pain at this hour. But it’s hardest for you! If we can help you with anything, please contact us immediately!
• He has meant/done/helped me a lot in my life. I mourn with you!
• He left so much of his soul in all of us! It's forever as long as we're alive!
• Our entire family sympathizes with your grief. Our condolences... Be strong!
• His role in my life is huge! How small those disagreements were, and the goodness and deeds that he did for me, I will never forget. My condolences to you!
• What a loss! Man of God! I pray for him, I pray for all of you!
• What a pity that I didn’t have time to tell him “I’m sorry!” He opened a new world for me, and I will always remember it! My sincere condolences!

Religious Condolence

Is it right to express condolences using religious rhetoric? When is it appropriate and when is it not appropriate to refer to quotations from holy books? How should you use the words of prayers if you express your condolences to a person of a different faith or an atheist?

• If both the sympathizer and the mourner are atheists or agnostics, then there is no point in resorting to religious rhetoric. Ideas for short phrases of sympathy can be gleaned from the section.
• If a man, someone who has lost a loved one is a believer, but you are not, then briefly addressing the topic of a better life in another world will be correct, but the use of church language will seem false. Ideas for phrases can be found in the section.
• On the contrary, when the person grieving is an atheist or agnostic, and you are a believer, then an appeal on your part to or to the dogmas of your religion will look like a sincere form of sympathy. Only the measure is important.
• If you and the bereaved person - both fellow believers, then turning to common sources, general and observance of canonical rites of remembrance are appropriate.

• Even if the grieving person is himself a lover of rhyme, still the moment of condolences is not the right time for your own poetry.
• Poetic text in the context of condolences is devalued and can be perceived as verbal exercises during grief.
• If it’s popular, then it’s already exotic, but condolence poems- this is the risk of being misunderstood.

Condolences via SMS? No.

• The message may arrive at the wrong time.
• Even if your condolences are terse, the very image of the SMS channel suggests the transmission of facts, not feelings.
• If you send condolences via SMS, then you have a phone in your hand. — Was it difficult to call? - this is what a person who has suffered a loss will think about.
• If you do not meet in person in the coming days, then express your condolences by phone or email.

What should you not say when expressing condolences?

• Comfort with the prospect. Pain is here and now, and against its background, turning to the future means either showing your tactlessness, or hurting a loved one, or, at the very least, being unheard or misunderstood. Inappropriate words: “Everything will be fine...”, “Don’t worry, you’ll get married in a couple of years”, “Everything will pass, and this is pain too”, “Time heals...”, “Nothing, you’re young, you’ll give birth again”, “I wish you faster survive the grief...
• Demonstrate positive circumstances associated with the loss. Examples of tactless phrases: “Be strong, friend! After all, it can also happen (so/worse/more terrible...)”, “With such torment, death is a relief”, “It’s good that at least (something worse) didn’t happen”, “The child will have his own room”, “You the opportunity arises (to do something).”
• Point out the culprit, “find the last one”. For example, “God gave - God took”, “If you... (went to the doctor), would not have let him go, listened to the advice...”, “Such doctors should be put on trial,” “Given his lifestyle, it is not surprising.”
• Don’t ask how and under what circumstances it happened. This is not the time or place to ask for details.
• You shouldn't at this moment talk about any topic not related to the experience. Neither about work, nor about mutual acquaintances, nor on any extraneous topics.
• Don't appeal to your experience, even if you have experienced a similar grief. “Girlfriend, I know how hard it is for you, I also lost...”, even if said sincerely, at the moment of grief it can be perceived inadequately.
• Intrusive or banal advice, like “You must live for the sake of...”, “You need to calm down, wait out the time”, etc. - all this is stupid and unnecessary in moments of grief.

It’s impossible not to list all the “impossible” ones. Use common sense, a sense of proportion, be sincere and sympathetic. Be short and concise. Remember that sometimes it is better to remain silent and abstain than to talk idle talk or be tactless.

How to write a letter of condolence

It is not always possible to express condolences in person, and then in the very first days after death a letter of sympathy should be sent.

Written condolences on a postcard appropriate as an addition to a discreet funeral bouquet (red, white colors) or together with some amount of money, if it is, say, a benefit or just financial assistance from an enterprise. Design matters: you can’t write condolences on a bright holiday or greeting card. Use special ones, or take a completely neutral card with a restrained design.

Email condolences it should also be concise, sincere, but restrained. The title should already contain words of condolences. So, it is incorrect to indicate “Condolences on the death of so-and-so” in the subject line of the letter, but the correct one would be: “[Name], my condolences on the death of your father/(mother).” Before you press the “send” button, read the condolences through the eyes of a grieving person. It should be short, to the point, without fluff or tactlessness. Below are examples of written condolences.

Examples of written condolences

Sample condolences on a card about the death of a mother

Dear/Dear [Name]!

It was difficult for us to accept the news of the death of your/your mother, [Name and Patronymic of the deceased]. The more we sympathize with your/your loss. We deeply mourn the death of [Name and Patronymic]. For us, she has always been an example of care, sensitivity, and attention to one’s neighbor. (or other positive qualities inherent in the deceased) and conquered with her kind disposition and love of humanity. We are very sad for her and can only imagine what a heavy blow her passing was for you. More than once we remembered her words: [such and such]. And in this she served as an example of [something], thanks to her we became/understood [how the deceased influenced us]. Your mother, [Name and Patronymic], raised and raised you - a worthy person, of whom, we are sure, she was proud. We are happy that we had the chance to know her.

With deep and sincere sympathy, the [So-and-so] family

Sample of condolences by e-mail about the death of mother

Email header:[Name], my condolences to you on the death of [Name and Patronymic]!

Text of the letter: Dear [Name]! Today I sadly learned about the death of your mother, [Name and Patronymic]. It’s hard to believe - after all, not so long ago she warmly welcomed us as guests. I remembered her as (positive qualities of the deceased) . It is difficult for me to imagine the depth of grief that you are experiencing right now. My sincere condolences!

Perhaps these days you will have troubles associated with mourning events. I want to offer you my help: maybe you need to meet someone, help with a car, or notify someone... Contact me! I would like to help in some way during this difficult moment for all of us!

I sympathize with your loss! Signature.

Condolences on the death of father

Structure of a letter (postcard, email) of condolences on the death of a father girlfriend or friend - the same as in the case of condolences for the death of a mother (see above). However, society values ​​slightly different qualities in a man than in a mother or wife. Words and phrases that are appropriate to express condolences on the death of dad, head of the family, are given below. If more precise words of consolation come to mind that reflect the characteristics of this particular person, then it is better to use them.

• As soon as I met your father, that same day I realized that he was a man of [such and such qualities]
• He was a real man, a responsible head of the family and a caring person.
• I didn’t know your father personally, but I can imagine how much he meant to you.
• He was an example for me in this and that.
• He admired everyone for his foresight, erudition, and sharp mind.
• I realized that I knew little about him. When the time is right, tell me more about your dad!
• Knowing you, I can guess how much your father gave to his family and children!

Samples of condolences for the death of a friend, colleague

Condolences to a colleague, employee, subordinate - not only a sign of good relations in the team, but also an element of business ethics in a healthy company. Condolences for a colleague are expressed in the same way as condolences for a friend, relative, or someone close to you. The examples below focus attention precisely on a professional status- boss, responsible specialist, prominent official, public figure...

• It is with deep regret that I learned about the tragic/untimely/sudden death of the president of your company, Mr. [Last Name-Patronymic]. His contribution to the formation/development/prosperity of your company is well known and indisputable. The management of [Company Name] and our colleagues, saddened by the bitter news, convey their condolences for the loss of a respected and talented leader.
• Let me express to you our deep feelings regarding the death of [position] Mrs. [Last name-First name-Patronymic]. Her professionalism, competence and dedication earned her the genuine respect of all who worked with her. Please accept our sincere condolences for your grief and sympathy for your irreparable loss.
• I am deeply shocked by the news of the death of [position, First Name and Patronymic]. Let me express my most sincere sympathy to you personally and all the employees of your company. My colleagues, having learned of the tragedy/grief/misfortune, share deep sadness at his/her passing.

Time is no longer a doctor.
Your abrasions and wounds.
On the scars of failure.
Will not apply balm.

It was just you, and no.
In this chaos of days.
Smoke from cigarettes.
Silhouette of shadows.

Passenger on the subway.
A mute musician.
Pierrot was in love.
Drunk and young.

A drop of poison from a needle.
And church candles.
Part of someone's game.
The result is a draw.

White snow in the fields.
Sad in the sky with the Moon.
News from distant lands.
Or just yourself.....

Yura Galochkin

But just a grave cross
Yes, lumps of raw clay...
The path is uneven and short,
Where it's half confused.
Framed by a mournful face,
First name, middle name and dates.
Don't cry
Don't get drunk
As we once could.
But they were just nearby,
You gave everything you have in yourself...
We haven't forgotten anything,
No one was betrayed.
But all I did was live like people,
With original rightness.
And I breathed with a cold chest
And he laughed carelessly.
But all he did was be my friend.
Is it a lot or a little?
And the fate of the sovereign...

Dear friend, you have been sick for a long time,
But I couldn’t save you!
Death turned out to be stronger than me.
Forgive me, I beg you!

You always protected me!
I will never forget
How you growled at the evil dogs,
Attacking us from the bushes.

Even though you were small in stature,
You could protect me
From cruel hungry wolves,
From criminals and thieves!

The children grew up with you.
We all lived as one family!
You have always been obedient
Even though I scolded you sometimes!

And now my soul hurts,
Like conscience...

For the departed, tablecloth for the journey.
For a visitor, a hospitable home.
For the lost, a guide to help.
The finder gets to save everything.
To the ignorant - to know all the secrets of knowledge
To the one who has learned, to teach others a lesson.
To those who have achieved medals and recognition,
And don't get caught up in the vanity flow.

He who sings cannot sing the last song.
The silent one still has time to say.
To the living - yes, to avoid illness,
And for a sleeper, it doesn’t take long to wrinkle the bed.
For the past, take your sorrows with you.
Become a truly fine day.
To the coming one, so that there are no pits...

Departed loved ones... tears are choking
Because this is all irreversible,
No...they haven't invented anesthesia yet -
To relieve the pain of losing loved ones...

And you can only quietly pray
For everyone who is not with us at this hour,
And wash your darling with water,
The water that people call tears.

It will suddenly feel a little better, maybe
And memory will gently knock on your heart,
And the one who was most dear to you,
Will briefly burst into life with poetry...

And the sun will become brighter for a minute,
And the pain will leave its former abode,
AND...

Friend, he is the first and the faithful
But there is no such thing as nervous and nasty.
Friend, he can be old and sensitive
But there is no such thing as mean and creepy.

We identify friends by school
In studies, where knowledge is given.
According to soldier's, prison bondage
Everyone gives out rank in their own way.

But we go through life alone
Only by chance does fate bring you together.
Grief, holidays, choosing a road
We remember those who have passed away, in memory of deeds.

Another life -
Only a month, two, six months.
Let another life fill your soul.
Everything is fine,
But why nature
Does rain predict sadness in my life?
The last kiss as summer ends
It's cooled down. Now cold as ice.
He was erased from his lips - a sad sign
And the heart doesn’t expect any more warmth.
Another life -
Other thoughts, destinies, people.
I really need this for
To understand that life will be different,
Nothing from the past is needed.

A friend ceases to be a friend.
Everything is still moving in circles,
And congratulations on the New Year
We are still in a hurry to send to each other.
We are still looking for mutual meetings.
But suddenly the conversation becomes lengthy.
And speech, you see, is no longer speech -
Diplomatic notes.
When someone else takes a risk with me
Blaspheme him with an open soul,
Having crushed the patina of alienation,
I still rush to the defense.
But in silence, alone
With myself and my conscience,
Direct question: “Is he my friend?” -
I don’t dare ask myself any more.

He was a man of great soul. We sincerely sympathize with you!

He meant a lot to me in my life. I mourn with you!

He left so much of his soul in all of us! It's forever as long as we're alive!

Our entire family sympathizes with your grief. Our condolences... Be strong!

His role in my life is huge! How small those disagreements were, and the goodness and deeds that he did for me, I will never forget. My condolences to you!

What a loss! Man of God! I pray for him, I pray for all of you!

What a pity that I didn’t have time to tell him “I’m sorry!” He opened a new world for me, and I will always remember it! My sincere condolences!

I mourn your loss. I know this is a hard blow for you

We offer our sincere condolences to all family and friends

I was told that your brother died. I am very sorry, I mourn with you.

A wonderful man has passed away. My condolences to you and your entire family at this sad and difficult moment.

This tragedy has hurt all of us. But of course, it affected you the most. My condolences

I understand how difficult it is to lose a loved one. I'm really sorry. Perhaps I can help you with something now?

Sincere condolences to family and friends. Big loss for us. Her memory will be in our hearts. We mourn together with our families.

Please accept our sincere condolences. May God reward her in heaven for all the good she did. She is and will remain in our hearts...

We offer you and your entire family our deepest condolences on your tragic death... We share your grief and offer you words of support and consolation. We pray for the deceased... With condolences,...

Sincere condolences to the family and friends of the untimely departure from our entire family. It is very bitter to lose your loved ones, family and friends, and doubly bitter if the young, beautiful and talented leave us. May God rest his soul.

Everyone who knew him is grieving now, because such a tragedy cannot leave anyone indifferent. I understand how difficult it is for you right now. I will never be able to forget him and I assure you that I will support you in every possible way, should you contact me.

We mourn with you for the untimely death. This is a great loss for everyone, we express our sincere condolences to the parents, all relatives and friends. May God bless his soul.

They say they love their grandchildren even more than their children. And we felt this love of our grandmother to the fullest. Her love will warm us all our lives, and we, in turn, will pass on a piece of this warmth to our grandchildren and great-grandchildren - may the sun of love never fade...

There is nothing worse and more painful than losing a child. It is impossible to find such words of support to ease your pain even a little. One can only imagine how difficult it is for you right now. Please accept our sincere condolences on the death of your dear daughter.

I may not have known your father very well personally, but I know how much he meant in your life, because you so often spoke about his love of life, his sense of humor, his wisdom, his care for you... I think he will be missed by so many people. I pray to God for you and your family.

There are no words to express how deeply we mourn death. She was a wonderful, kind woman. We cannot even imagine how much of a blow her passing was for you. We miss her endlessly and remember how she once... She was a model of tact and mercy. We are happy that she was in our lives. You can count on our help at any moment.

I am truly sorry for the loss of your dad. I express my sincere sympathy to all of you and know this is a very sad and sad time for you. I know from my own life how deep the loss is when you realize that he will no longer be in your life. I can tell you, the only thing that can help you get over your loss is your memories. Your father lived a long and full life and achieved a lot in his life. He will always be remembered as a hardworking, intelligent and loving man. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all. May you find solace in your family and friends who share your loss. My deepest condolences.

I am shocked by this sad news. It's hard to accept. I share your pain of loss...

My heart is broken by yesterday's news. I worry with you and remember you with the warmest words! It's hard to accept loss! Everlasting memory!

The news of your brother's death is a terrible blow! It hurts to even think that we won't see him again. Please accept my and my husband's condolences!

Until now, the news about my aunt’s death seems like a ridiculous mistake! It's impossible to comprehend this! Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss!

My condolences! It hurts to even think about it, it’s hard to talk about. I sympathize with your pain! Everlasting memory!

It is difficult to express in words how much we sympathize with your loss! A golden man, of which there are few! We will always remember him!

“This is an incredible, catastrophic loss. The loss of a real person, an idol, an exemplary family man and a citizen of his country."

We sympathize with your loss! The news of our son's death shocked our entire family. We remember and will remember him as a most worthy person. Please accept our sincere condolences!

It's little consolation, but know that we are with you in the grief of losing your daughter and sincerely sympathize with your entire family! Everlasting memory!

Words cannot express all the pain and sadness. Like a bad dream. Eternal peace for your soul.

I was stunned by this terrible news. For me, she is a hospitable hostess, a kind woman, but for you... The loss of your mother... I sympathize with you so much and cry with you!

We are very, very upset beyond words! It’s hard when you lose loved ones, but the death of a mother is a grief for which there is no cure. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss!

She was a model of delicacy and tact. Her memory will be as endless as her kindness to all of us. Leaving..... is an incomparable grief. Please accept my deepest condolences!

A grief incomparable to anything! And I have no words to ease your pain. But I know that she would not like to see your despair. Be strong! Tell me, what could I take on these days?

We are happy that we knew her. Her kind disposition and generosity surprised us all, and that is how she will be remembered! It is difficult to express our grief in words - it is too great. Let the kindest memories and bright memories of her be at least a small consolation!

The news of her departure came as a shock to us. We can only guess what a blow her departure was for you. At such moments we feel abandoned, but remember that you have friends who loved and appreciated your... Count on our help!

Words cannot heal a terrible wound in the heart. But bright memories of her, how honestly and honorably she lived her life, will always be stronger than death. In the bright memory of her, we are with you forever!

Losing loved ones is very difficult... And the loss mothers (daughters, sons)- this is the loss of a part of yourself... She will always be missed, but may her memory and warmth always be with you!

Words cannot heal this wound of loss. But the bright memory of her, who lived her life honestly and with dignity, will be stronger than death. We are with you in eternal memory of her!

Her whole life was spent in countless labors and worries. We will always remember her as such a warm-hearted and soulful woman!

Without parents, without mother, there is no one between us and the grave. May wisdom and perseverance help you get through these most difficult days. Hold on!

The paragon of virtue went with her! But she will remain a guiding star for all of us who remember, love and honor her.

It is for her that you can dedicate kind words: “She whose actions and deeds came from the soul, from the heart.” May she rest in peace!

The life she lived has a name: “Virtue.” She is a source of life, faith and love for loving children and grandchildren. The Kingdom of heaven!

How much we didn’t tell her during her lifetime!

We are deeply saddened by the news of your death... He was a fair and strong man, a faithful and sensitive friend. We knew him well and loved him like a brother (sister).

Our family mourns with you. The loss of such reliable support in life is irreparable. But remember that we would be honored to help you any minute you need it.

My condolences! The death of a beloved husband is the loss of oneself. Hang in there, these are the hardest days! We mourn together with your grief, we are close...

Today everyone who knew him mourns with you. This tragedy does not leave anyone close to us indifferent. I will never forget my friend, and I consider it my duty to him to support you on any occasion, should you contact me.

I am so sorry that my brother and I had disagreements at one time. But I always appreciated and respected him as a person. I apologize for my moments of pride and offer you my help. Today and always.

Thanks to your statements about ....., it seems to me that I have always known him. I sympathize with you about the death of such a loved one and a soul so close to you! Rest in peace…

I am truly sorry for the loss of your dad. This is a very sad and sad time for you. But good memories are what will help you survive this loss. Your father lived a long and colorful life and achieved success and respect in it. We also join in our friends’ words of grief and memories of him.

I sincerely sympathize with you... What a person, what a personality! He deserves more words than can be said right now. In the memories of my grandfather, he is both our teacher of justice and mentor in life. Eternal memory to him!

Your shock at the onset of loneliness is a severe shock. But you have the strength to overcome grief and continue what he did not manage to do. We are nearby, and we will help with everything - contact us! This is our duty of memory!

We mourn with you in this difficult moment! He is the kindest person, a moneyless man, he lived for his neighbors. We sympathize with your loss and join you in the kindest and brightest memories of your husband.

We're sorry for your loss! We sympathize - the loss is irreplaceable! Intelligence, iron will, honesty and justice... - we are lucky to work with such a friend and colleague! We would like to ask him for forgiveness for so many things, but it’s too late... Eternal memory to a mighty man!

Mom, we mourn and cry with you! Our sincere gratitude from children and grandchildren and warm memories of a good father and kind grandfather! Our memory of him will be eternal!

For us he is alive and somewhere nearby,
In memories, in heart and in dreams
The soul is always alive, it knows everything
And he sees how we are suffering now!
There is more than one angel in the sky,
And this is obvious, I know for sure!
Today, tomorrow and throughout life
We remember, love and mourn!

I asked God to return everything,
It was as if he didn't want to hear me,
I've walked a short life's path,
We won't be able to see you again...

When we met secretly,
When we played checkers
Everything was cool then
You were with us Arkashka!

Now you're not there,
Imbued with sadness
I remember all the time
And I really miss you...

Perhaps you came
Well, for God's sake I ask you:
"You come to me more often,
I'm always looking forward to seeing you!"

I feel bad without him... Unbearable
I just exist, I don't live
Oh, Lord, give me some strength!
I don't ask for more anymore

Separation is cutting more and more, suffocating
No air. Only bitter blue smoke
All sounds strain the ear and soul,
And the world somehow became empty and gray

Closing my eyes, I imagine that he is nearby,
Will make your heart tremble in your chest,
His face with an empty and sad look
And quietly I whisper: "Don't go..."

The soul shrinks into a ball,
He was given a short sentence...
And he couldn't do much
Although I wanted to live and could continue to live,
But alas...
The time is over and life is too short...
And it’s not easy to part, but you can’t get anything back,
And a sharp knife for the heart...
And it’s better not to touch anything,
Wanted to help? well...
There's nothing you can do to help
And the strip of the knife will not grow together
You're dying slowly
You scream as if you're not breathing
But all in vain... He left for another world forever...

You left, the whole world went dark...
my heart is beating barely audibly...
I don't believe you're gone.
Why did it all turn out this way?
You left, taking everything with you...
Tears froze in my eyes...
But in my heart there is only silent pain...
We will forever remember YOU...

Hearts burn and candles cry
According to our dear, dear ones.
And early in the morning, in the afternoon and in the evening
We remember them, yearn and mourn
We ask for eternal rest for their souls
Let's keep the love and memory
And we pray on our knees
And again we yearn and mourn.

All poems are for you, my angel,
Pain pierces them every word,
And the soul cannot find its peace
Until we are together again.

You will live in eternal memory,
And no matter what anyone says,
There, behind the cemetery fence,
The world keeps your memory.
People like you will not be forgotten so easily,
Your eyes will remain shiny with tears.
And for a very long time people will still be
Carry you bouquets of scarlet roses.
Are you sleeping. But everything is so unusual.
Everything reminds me of you.
And only the rain is so quiet, barely audible
Knocking. As if he were saying hello.

It's so hard for me to live without you,
And you - you tease and worry.
You can't replace me
The whole world... But it seems that you can.
I have my own in the world:
Deeds, successes and misfortunes.
I just miss you
For complete human happiness.
It's so hard for me to live without you:
Everything is uncomfortable, everything is worrying...
You cannot replace the world, -
But he can’t do you either!

Our loved ones don't die -
They return with warm rain.
They even return from paradise,
To see how we love and wait.
Running through the gardens and across the field,
Having watered both the flowers and the forests,
Having breathed plenty of native air,
They rise up into the heavens.
They rise up with evaporation,
Turning into a cloud again.
And they spill again - like a downpour,
To see our love.
Our loved ones don't die.

There was a man and suddenly he was gone.
His heart stopped beating.
Mom is crying, my beloved is crying,
What have you done, you ruined him.
But everything could have been different
And don’t help your grief by crying.
You don’t know how to continue to live,
Only during life do you forget to love.

I can't hear my native voice,
No kind, sweet eyes are visible.
Why was fate cruel?
How early you left us!
The Great Tribulation cannot be measured,
Tears won't help me,
You are not with us, but forever
You will not die in our hearts.
Nobody could save you
Died too early.
But the bright image is your dear
We will always remember...

When someone closest to you leaves,
Dear, beloved person.
The whole world will appear as a bitter drama
Where everything turns black, even the snow.
And never! Nothing in the world
The warmth of their hands cannot be replaced.
While you're alive, don't skimp
Give your love to your family...

You have gone into holy eternity,
And our pain cannot be helped,
And the name of pain is infinity...
You left us for another world - there,
From where there is no return,
Leaving a memory of yourself, love,
Sadness and pain of loss.
You reign in heaven,
And we should bring roses to the grave.
May the earth rest in peace to you,
And the soul - eternal peace.

Words cannot express the pain of loss,
Nobody knows when trouble will come.
Fate alone is to blame for this,
That You left us forever, forever.
May it be easy for you there,
And the memory of You will remain here with us.
Sleep well, swan's down to you,
And for the soul - the Kingdom of Heaven.

You have gone into holy eternity, and our pain cannot be helped,
and the name of pain is infinity...
You left us for another world - where there is no return,
leaving memories of yourself, love, sadness and pain of loss.
You reign in heaven, and we carry roses to the grave.
May the earth rest in peace to you and eternal peace to your soul.

Hello, dear readers! When loved ones die, it is a great sorrow that is very difficult to survive. At this moment, words of participation, words of support from people around you are important. But not all people know how to express condolences. The expert advice collected in this article will help you.

Funeral words

Condolences- these are sympathetic words of grief that are expressed to a person who has suffered a loss. At a subconscious level, we roughly know how to behave in pleasant life situations, what words to say on holidays and birthdays. And regarding the death, we don’t know what to say, we are immediately lost, especially when we are not ready for such a loss.

For most people, such events are difficult to understand and accept, so words are not immediately found that could help a person come to terms with the death of a loved one.

We all understand that those people who have suffered loss are so vulnerable that they feel any insincerity in words.

At this moment they are looking for participation and support, so it is important to watch the phrases so that an accidentally escaped word does not add to the emotional pain.

Sometimes it is better to remain silent, come up, just hug the person, thereby showing your sympathy and understanding of the loss.

We will try to help you choose the right words that will give the person a feeling of your support and sincere sympathy.

Your words should convey depth, sincerity, and readiness to help. A grief-stricken person will not be able to understand your long speech, so the words of grief should be short but succinct.

It is important to sympathize in person in a timely manner, send a telegram or send an SMS. But you can resort to SMS only as a last resort. SMS fails to convey the sincerity of your participation. Do not choose template texts, it is better to write from the heart, in your own words.

Find brief words of consolation and support. You can compose a poem, but on the first day of the death of someone close to you, you are unlikely to find understanding. If you are relatives, you must remember all death anniversaries. For the first anniversary, you can write your sincere poem next to the photograph of the deceased. It will be appropriate!

In connection with the death of any person in a cemetery or at a memorial table, speeches must be made. In this case, mention the virtues of the deceased.

Say that it will be difficult not to remember him when you complete a project he has not completed or when you go fishing, barbecue, and so on.

If this is a woman, then say that bachelorette parties will not take place without her or that there will be no one to borrow an embroidery pattern from. There is something kind and sincere to say about every person.

Famous mournful phrases

• “May the earth rest in peace” is said immediately after the burial or at the wake.
• “Words cannot express the pain of loss.”
• “I sincerely condole and sympathize with your grief.”
• “Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of a loved one.”
• “Let us keep in our hearts the bright memory of the deceased.”

Offers of help

You can offer help to everyone: a friend, co-workers, acquaintances. How to offer help correctly:

• “We will always be by your side, we will provide all possible assistance to you and your family.”
• “When resolving issues that may arise these days, you can count on our help.”
• “I’ll be there, count on my help.”

Sorrowful words of support at the death of grandmother, mother

• I share your pain of loss, I experience it with you, I remember ___ with the most sincere words!
• It's hard to accept loss! It hurts to think that __ is no longer with us, but the bright memory will always remind us of her!
• In memory of your mother, you must (must) hold on. She will always take care of you. Everlasting memory ___!

On the death of father, grandfather

• “Please accept my sincere condolences, I deeply sympathize and worry with you. Your father (grandfather) was a real support for you and your family.”
• “Your father was a strong personality. In memory of him, you must show wisdom, persevere through great grief, and continue what he did not complete.”
• “We will carry the good memory of this bright man throughout our lives.”

How to Express Condolences on the Death of a Husband

• My condolences from the bottom of my heart! You walked through life side by side, hand in hand, and now you suffered this bitter loss. You need to hold on for the sake of your children, find the strength to survive the most difficult days of your life. I will be your support. Be strong!
• The loss is irreparable, but God will give strength to survive this grief. We will keep the brightest memory of __!
• It's hard to find words to console you. The loss is irreparable, but we will always be there, you know that!
• For the sake of your children, their well-being, peace of mind, you need to find the strength within yourself to cope with immeasurable grief. We must live, your love is not dead, it is immortal!
• Eternal memory to a bright, kind man!

To the death of a friend, brother

• It is difficult to come to terms with the loss of a young guy who did not know many of the joys of life. Eternal memory to him!
• You must become a double support for your parents, for yourself and for your brother. Hold on, be strong, support your parents
• He has not left our hearts, we will remember him as long as we live!

Condolences to the relatives

• Please accept my sincere condolences. It’s painful to talk about, impossible to come to terms with. Bright memory!
• Any words will not resurrect your loved one, but we are always there. Everlasting memory!
• What a man left this world! The grief is immeasurable. She lived modestly and left, quietly and modestly, as if a candle had burned out. May she rest in heaven!

These short mourning words can be sent in writing by ordering a telegram or writing an SMS.

Condolences to a friend

• Your grief is my grief. I am ready to share the bitterness of loss with you and always come to the rescue. Count on me! Let's pray together for the soul of the deceased!
• You are in pain now, but time heals, and I am ready to support you with everything I can. You can rely on me, count on my help!
• Your friend didn't want you to lose your temper. Be strong for your friendship and count on my support. I will share your grief!
• I'm truly sorry! But you have to hold on, a friend is looking down from heaven and supporting you. Be strong!

Words of support for a friend

• Friend, I will pray for the peace of __ soul with you. Prayer will help you get through this grief!
• Your grief shook me to the core. I worry with you. I am grateful to fate for allowing me to meet such a wonderful person as your mother.
• Please accept my condolences and deep respect for your deceased father. It’s hard to find words when I see you lost from the bitterness of loss. I will always be there, let's pray for him together.
• I was shocked by such terrible news. I will never forget how joyfully she greeted guests and was a kind and reliable friend to everyone. I sympathize and cry with you!

Words of comfort to a colleague

• I am shocked by the death of someone close to you. I will pray for his soul.
• Please accept our most sincere condolences. May God reward her for her good deeds on earth, and we will pray.
• This tragedy shocked us, we are sincerely worried and offer our help.
• We are shocked by this sad news. It’s hard for us to believe that your loved one is no longer with you. We share with you the bitterness of loss, we sincerely mourn with you. Everlasting memory!
• It’s hard to lose loved ones, but the death of a mother is the greatest grief in the world. We mourn with you!

Short words on the occasion of the death of loved ones

Examples of condolences:

• I was shocked by incredible news. It is impossible to accept and come to terms with it. Hold on!
• I share with you the pain of loss.
• The news of his death was a terrible blow. I empathize with you.
• The deceased meant a lot to us. Let us remember and honor!
• Grief can cloud the mind. Hold on, the deceased would not approve of your tears.

Funeral words among Muslims and Orthodox Christians

Muslim You shouldn’t say words that are common to us. They have their own traditions, their own faith. We must respect other faiths and cultures.

• May Allah forgive all the sins of your deceased and make your consolation good!
• May Allah reward you with more rewards and relief in difficult situations!
• May Allah forgive the sins of your deceased!
• May Allah have mercy on him!

How to express condolences Orthodox?

• What a loss! Man of God! I pray for the peace of his soul, I pray for all of you!
• May peace be upon his ashes.
• Rest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
• Rest in peace.
• Kingdom of heaven and eternal peace!
• God is merciful!
• Lord, rest with the Saints!

In parting: the ancient sage Cicero said: “The life of the dead continues in the memory of the living.” Remember your loved ones, honor their memory while you are alive and pass this on to your children!