What's the best way to ask a guy for forgiveness? An apology to a guy in your own words

How to ask for forgiveness correctly so that you will be forgiven afterwards

An effective apology should look like this:

1. You express regret;
2. You explain your wrong action;
3. You acknowledge your responsibility;
4. You confess of your own free will;
5. You offer to independently correct the situation;
6. You are asking to be forgiven.

The most important components are to admit responsibility and offer to correct the current situation yourself.

Professor Roy Levitsky conducted the research. Here's what he says:

“Our research has shown that the most important thing in an apology is admitting responsibility. Accept the fact that the fault is entirely on your side and it was you who made the mistake, not someone else.”

The next most effective strategy after accepting your guilt is to offer to improve the situation.

“An apology alone will not achieve anything, because in itself it is useless. Therefore, you must express your willingness to fix what is broken. This will reflect that you have accepted responsibility for the damage caused,” says Roy Lewicki.

It is also very important to express regret and repentance, and explain what you did wrong. And only last but not least should you ask for forgiveness,” the professor warns. You can do without this step.

Research has shown that if you change the perspective of the person you have offended, you will reduce the damage done. In this case, you should do the following:

1. The first step is to eliminate personally unpleasant moments.
2. Next, explain your action and state the reason. But don't make excuses for it!
3. You must back up your apology with real action. Show the person that you have changed.
4. Then you must restore the relationship with this person.

Examples of apologies

Sometimes the simple word “sorry” is enough, but most often it is not. Therefore, prepare in advance all the phrases you are going to say. You can even write them down on a piece of paper if you are afraid of forgetting.

Here are some examples of how you can ask for forgiveness beautifully:

• “(name), forgive me for doing this to you. I miss you madly, you know how dear you are to me. Tomorrow is a new day, and I don't want you to be there. Every second spent with you was and will be unforgettable and unique. I very love you. Let's start all over again?"
• “Life consists of mistakes, we learn from them. So I stumbled, made a mistake. But I won’t make excuses, I just want you to understand that you are very dear to me and I’m afraid of losing you. This fear turned my head, so I was wrong. I ask you, do not judge, but understand. I am sorry!"
• “I know that I am very guilty, but I ask you to understand and forgive me!”
• “Life is too short to waste it on grudges! Please forgive me!
• “Sorry, I was wrong!” - despite its simplicity and banality, this is a very important and effective phrase when apologizing.

You can also apologize beautifully in poetry. Of course, it is advisable to write this verse yourself, so that the words in it are truly sincere, from the heart. But for those who do not have the talent for this or simply inspiration and ideas, we will give several examples of how to ask for forgiveness in verse:

“My heart has no peace,

It's bursting out of my chest

For what I did to you,

Forgive me, darling, forgive me!”

"My heart hurts,

There is no rest for me

While we're at loggerheads

I can't help but think about you...

Please forgive me!

How to improve relationships if you quarrel

With a friend

There is no such thing as a perfect friendship. Sometimes grievances, quarrels, and grief still happen. There is no need to immediately put an end to your relationship; everything can still be fixed. Most often, friends insult not on purpose: without thinking, they were rude because of a bad mood, got into something that wasn’t their business, interrupted, etc.

It is worth maintaining a relationship only if friendship for you means devotion, honesty and mutual assistance. Any other friendship would have come to an end sooner or later.

In order to ask for forgiveness from a girlfriend or boyfriend, first you must know exactly the reason why he or she was offended. Talk to her/him to resolve the problem and maintain the friendship. Explain, say that you didn’t do it out of malice. But this should not be an excuse, you just need to indicate your motive. Apologize for hurting her/his feelings.

If the offended person is your friend, who is emotional, romantic and in nature, consider giving her an apology in poetry. Their examples are given above.

If your apology is not accepted, don't be upset. You did everything you could.

With a loved man

How to ask a girl for forgiveness

Often, their loved ones suffer from men’s mistakes. You can’t avoid mistakes, but you can learn a few simple ways to apologize to your girlfriend or wife so that she stops being angry and forgets your mistake forever.

1. Wait for the girl to cool down. There is no need to immediately climb into an open flame. This will only make the situation worse. Women take longer to leave than men. Within a day, the angry young lady will cool down and understand that your act was not so terrible. That's when you need to come up with an apology.
2. Do not follow the rule that “the best defense is attack.” If, instead of apologizing, you begin to reproach the girl for the fact that she, too, is not without sin, you can create problems even more serious than the original ones.
3. Repent.
4. Prepare a beautiful speech in advance. It is advisable that it contains kind words and compliments.
5. Don't hum, don't slow down, don't stutter. The girl will get angry. If you forgot the words, figure it out as you go, say that it’s hard and lonely for you without her.
6. Don't forget to buy a large bouquet and a gift when you apologize to your lover. Approach the choice of a bouquet with soul, you don’t want the girl to think that you are saving on her and not taking the situation seriously.
7. If your action is serious, and your girlfriend will not forgive you so easily, try to apologize in an original way. For example, show up at work with a huge bouquet of flowers to make her colleagues jealous (and at lunch they will talk about how wonderful and romantic you are), or prepare her a gourmet dinner personally.
8. When asked why you did this, which is asked by 90% of women, answer this way: “I was stupid!” or “Because I’m a fool!”

How to ask a guy for forgiveness

Every girl knows how to apologize to her boyfriend or husband - she needs to calmly explain the current situation. After all, this is usually just a minor conflict that arose out of the blue.

Here are some tips and phrases:

• Express your regret. Recognize that it is you who are to blame for what happened, and not circumstances or other people.
• Make peace in person, not over the phone, not via SMS. At the same time, look the man in the eyes. Your eyes are the best way to show how sorry you are for what you did. Don't hold back your tears.
• If you are not forgiven the first time, give the person time to calm down. Perhaps then he himself will take the first step.
• Make amends. Give him a gift that is valuable to him. And when giving it, say: “Beloved, this is for you. I'm sorry. I love you very much!".
• Choose the right time and place. For example, cook his favorite dish for a man and apologize during dinner.
• Stop in time. There is no need to make excuses for a long time, it will start to irritate.

With parents

Remember: your parents will always forgive you. They are the most dear and close people to you. Friends separate, the girl may not forgive, but mom and dad will always be with you. They will forgive you everything - what you said without thinking, what you did not call them due to lack of time.

Apologize for your lack of attention to them. Call them daily, find out how they are doing, how their health is.

The phrase comes to mind: “Parents are not chosen.”

First you need to understand that you are not always right, that you are also mistaken. If you notice your parents' shortcomings but don't see your own, it will be difficult to ask for forgiveness. Parents are also imperfect. They want the best for you, but don't know how to do it right.

For example, you did not follow the rule that your parents set. First of all, tell them honestly. Do not minimize your own guilt, do not make excuses or lie, otherwise you will create more serious problems for yourself. If you tell everything honestly, you will prove that you are worthy of trust, despite your mistakes.

Admit that you made your parents worry. Therefore, it would be right to ask mom and dad for forgiveness. Say it like this: “I regret what happened. From now on I will behave more decently, I will watch what I say. Sorry". Show that you are willing to bear the appropriate punishment. Mature people should always be responsible for their actions.

Rules: what else is important to consider besides words of forgiveness

1. Look the person in the eye.
2. Don't hold back your emotions. If you want to cry, cry.
3. Call the person by name.
4. Be honest and sincere.
5. Don't try to immediately ask for forgiveness. This may take time.
6. Put yourself in the shoes of the offended person, understand his feelings.
7. Accept the person's reaction after your words.

Why might you not be taken seriously or sincerely and reject your apology?

• You are not serious

To ensure that your apology is taken seriously, it is better to choose the right environment for it. If you mutter, “So, are we friends again?” while bursting into laughter at a party, your words are unlikely to be taken seriously. It’s better to choose a place where you can explain yourself in a quiet environment, showing your feelings.

• You are insincere

If you do not admit your guilt, your words will sound insincere. The opponent will treat them with distrust. He will think that you have no intention of apologizing and will only become angrier. An effective apology must address the feelings and needs of the offended person.

• You are not sure of your words

You don’t understand your mistake, but you are trying to somehow improve the relationship. Most often it looks like this: “Forgive me, but I don’t know what I did.” The use of words such as “but” and “if” makes the addressee take them lightly.

• Wrong time

An apology won't work if you shout out that you're sorry during an argument. You won't be heard or taken seriously if you're still arguing. This is because when a person experiences negativity, they will not listen to you. Therefore, it is better for you to wait until you both calm down.

• Forgiveness via SMS

You are unlikely to be received sincerely if you apologize via SMS. If you meet in person, you are more likely to be forgiven. This way you can convey your feelings not only through words, but also through facial expressions and gestures.

Advice from a psychologist on how to properly ask for forgiveness and make peace with loved ones.

Errors

Making a mistake while apologizing can only make the person angrier. So watch what you say. Don't make the following mistakes:

• Don’t make excuses or look for excuses for your actions. Otherwise, it will look like you don't regret what you did. The person will notice this, and it will be very unpleasant for him. Your apology will be rejected.
• Don't blame the person when you apologize. Words such as “It’s your own fault!” or “It’s all because of you” are not welcome. Saying something that damages a person's self-esteem will ruin your path to reconciliation. You will talk about all this later if you manage to maintain this relationship.
• Don't overdo it. There is no need to overemphasize your repentance.. The person will think that you are pretending. It's better to be more honest and sincere than to be dramatic.

How are the phrases you say when asking for forgiveness perceived?

Everyone perceives your words differently. It depends on many things: character, upbringing, mood. A person can also react both positively and sharply negatively.

Sometimes the phrases you say for forgiveness are perceived as an important part of sociocultural norms. And if, after several failures in establishing relationships, you begin to get bored with texts and calls, your words will be perceived as a way of attracting attention to yourself. In this case, it is recommended to pause so that your phrase seems like a deliberate step.

Words of apology to your loved one
Lonely and sad without warm palms on the soul. I beg you, forgive me, give me back a ray of orange smile.

…
I want to be close, just stand there and be silent.
I would like to receive a ray of warmth on my skin from you, as before.
I would like to forgive my bunny.
I want our boat to sail quickly again.

…
I love to catch your sunny glance on my skin, but alas, the gray veil of quarrels makes my body freeze and shudder, and write another SMS with words of forgiveness.

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My heart was shrouded in separation with a thin layer of frost. I ask you for forgiveness. Give me one last chance, give the last ray of warmth to my heart...

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This quarrel put an end to our love relationship. I ask you, let's correct it with a comma and continue to float along the river of happiness and sunny smiles.

Lonely and sad without warm palms on the soul. I beg you, forgive me, give me back my ray of light

…
Please forgive me, return the sweet juice of love...
My throat hurts and cuts this bitter taste of separation.

…
Tons of sadness press my soul against the cold waves of distance.
Sorry for the mistake, return the warmth of your hugs. Please.

…
How difficult and cold it is between us now
I ask for forgiveness, I beg you.
I'm sorry I had to make a mistake back then.
I really want to make peace with you.

…
The sand of separation with its grains of sand cuts my soul and makes me shudder from the pain of loneliness... Give me one last chance... Give me forgiveness. Take the steel sting out of my chest.

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This quarrel inserted a steel sting into my heart and sends pain through my body like scarlet stripes of separation. Please forgive me, take this hellish pain out of my heart.

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Words of apology to your loved one
Dim lanterns of parting lead a loving heart into the unknown and make it stumble over the sharp stones of loneliness. Forgive me, forgive my frozen soul in this labyrinth of loneliness...

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Hundreds of copper needles have dug into the flesh of my soul... Only your forgiveness can remove them... Please do not destroy my love...

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Like gray winds in my soul, the word large hail hits my heart - this separation... And I have nowhere to run. Even you reject my words of apology...

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The red light burns continuously and makes my soul become covered with frost at the cold crossroads of quarrels. Darling, forgive me, please. Turn on the green light of your heat.

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Among the frosts of silence, the soul is covered with a thin layer of crystals. This quarrel will soon freeze him... The only chance is your forgiveness, which apparently I cannot wait for.

Our anchor was dropped and everything instantly froze.
Why did a petty quarrel stop us?
Why did you stop? Doesn't let you step?
Why did a whirlpool come into our lives?
He is conscious

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Forgiveness is a characteristic of the strong. Darling, I know, I am sure that you are very, very strong. Please don't break this pattern...

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I wish I could take and place this yesterday’s leaf of fate on the flame of our love. (Gentle name), let's burn our quarrel.

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I want to feel the warmth of my hands, see the blue distance and step on the green grass... And not freeze at the crossroads of loneliness and write words of forgiveness... I love you very much.

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It's a pity that life is not an old cassette player. And you can’t rewind a quarrel with a simple pencil. You can forgive her... only you... I really ask you about this.

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You blocked the highway of warmth and smiles. I'm freezing in the lonely grayness of the cold. Please save me. Return everything with a word of forgiveness...

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I want to be nearby, and not to drive away bitterness onto a notebook sheet with words of forgiveness, apologies and droplets of tears from tortured eyes...

1. SMS to my beloved man of apology My soul, without your smile, freezes on the concrete bench of loneliness. Please forgive her and warm her with a ray of reciprocity of feelings. … Green leaves...
2. Apologies to my beloved girl My soul froze in a cold sweat and with a trembling voice asks for your forgiveness... ... A stupid mistake, like a battering stone destroys everything we...
3. Forgive me poems to my beloved dear guy, man, husband, touching Our anchor was thrown and everything instantly froze. Why did a petty quarrel stop us? Why did you stop? Don't step...

Sometimes such unpleasant situations occur that even the most loving and close people quarrel.

And after a quarrel they have no idea how to apologize to their wife, husband or other loved one.

Sometimes it’s even difficult for people to find warm and appropriate words to apologize. And they continue to feel guilty before the other person, not daring to take the first step towards reconciliation.

Sometimes a request for forgiveness and an apology comes from the person who is not to blame, because he wants to quickly improve the relationship and simply make peace. And this is also correct, because only a strong-willed and reasonable person can ask for an apology without guilt.

If you have done something wrong and want to ask for forgiveness through telephone messages, you definitely need to know about a few small but important rules.

Whether you are a man or a woman makes no difference. Just remember that before asking for forgiveness, you definitely need to calm down, cool down, realize your mistake and sincerely wish to improve the relationship.

After this, it is better to wait some more time (at least a couple of days) so that the offended person can calm down and calmly accept your desire to make peace. You can be sure that almost immediately after a serious quarrel, the woman or man you offended will not even listen to you.

Forgiveness through telephone messages

Before you start apologizing, every woman who has done something wrong, as well as every guilty man, should know about the basic small nuances in order to apologize correctly. They need to not only be remembered, but also adhered to:

• You don’t need to send SMS to your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife too often. One message for a maximum of 3-4 hours will be enough not to bother a person. If there is no response after sending several messages, then either wait a while or try another way to apologize.
• Do not duplicate text in subsequent messages.
• What to do if there is no answer? If the person you're apologizing to doesn't respond, then you need to make a more serious apology than just sending a text message.
• Select the SMS text based on what you yourself would like to read from your loved one as a request for forgiveness.

• Do not overuse emoticons and parentheses. After all, they still won’t be able to naturally, accurately and correctly convey the depth of your emotions to your loved one.
• Explain to your loved one that you sincerely apologize and ask for forgiveness. It is better not to use the phrase “I did this because...”. This applies to situations where the girl is right (or the guy is right).
• Don’t think that immediately after the first SMS a person is able to forgive you. After several messages, you can send the last one with the phrase “Are you ready to forgive me?” Usually such a phrase allows you to get an answer immediately.

What can you write in a message to your husband?

If a woman is to blame, then she can apologize to her husband using the following SMS:

• I really want to see you, look into your beloved and beautiful eyes, so that you can see that I am very sorry for our quarrel and sincerely wish to make peace with you and be as loved as before. I was wrong.

• Quarrels make people understand and decide how important and dear they are to each other. After this quarrel, I realized that you are the most precious treasure in life. And I apologize to you because I want us to be happy again.

• I want to apologize to you for the fact that tears flowed from your beautiful and beloved eyes. I want to take the first step towards reconciliation. Sorry...

Remember that a truly brave and intelligent woman can ask for an apology, even if the man is to blame. But in this case, you can only properly apologize for raising the tone in a conversation or accidentally throwing offensive phrases or expressions. But no more than that.

How to ask for forgiveness from your loved one?

Woman – a very sensitive and touchy creature who needs warm and gentle words.

Therefore, if a man is to blame, he can unusually apologize to his beloved using the following SMS:

• I understand that it is very difficult to forgive me. I can imagine how angry you are with me now. And you're absolutely right - I went too far. I apologize to you! I love you so much!
• Please forgive me! I can't even imagine the pain I caused you... I apologize to you.

• I really miss the happy sparkle in your eyes, which disappeared after our quarrel. I want you to illuminate me with your smile again, and your eyes to be the happiest. I'm sorry…

By the way, if you add to these messages a meeting with your loved one with flowers and a gift, the chances of a speedy reconciliation will greatly increase! For a woman, first of all, it is important to be sure that you love her and sincerely regret the quarrel.

Joking messages

Also, when a man is wrong or a woman is wrong, but the quarrel was not so serious, you can apologize in a joking manner. This will only allow you to thoroughly defuse the situation and receive forgiveness faster.

Don’t know how to apologize beautifully through phone messages so that your loved one will like it? Read further:

1. The big toe and little toe on my right foot are still shaking convulsively from the overwhelming shame that I could do this to you today! Even in the mirror, instead of reflecting myself, I see a donkey with incredibly huge ears. I promise not to offend you like that again, I'm sorry...
2. I miss you very much, because now I can’t take out the trash, clean up and vacuum the apartment on my own. I'm sorry…
3. I can’t sleep, I can’t think, I can’t work, I can’t drink, I can’t eat, all my RAM is occupied by files only about you, and the rest of the programs are completely frozen. Forgive me, otherwise I will need a complete reboot.

It is not at all necessary to ask for an apology solely by sending an SMS to your husband or wife. Together you can, for example, jokingly bury the hatchet of war (your quarrel) in the yard.

Romantic Apology

You shouldn’t naively assume that men are absolutely not romantic. They love all sorts of romantic surprises and gifts no less than women.

Therefore, a woman can safely write an SMS with a text like “You are my prince, whom I have been waiting for so long and patiently, but now I can’t understand how I could offend you like that.” There can be an unlimited number of options for such SMS, which depends only on your imagination and the seriousness of your quarrel.

No one person can be to blame for a quarrel or scandal, so each of those who quarreled must necessarily analyze the situation, draw conclusions and apologize so that old grievances do not become the cause of long-term quarrels. The woman may also be wrong, or perhaps the man spoke too rudely during a quarrel?

Unspoken rules for asking for forgiveness

If you decide to apologize to your loved one via SMS, then try not to use phrases in the text like “I’m to blame, but...” Such phrases can cancel out all apologies, so forget about such expressions.

• To ensure that your apologies to your beloved boyfriend or precious girlfriend are sincere, write in your SMS the words that come from your heart. The recipient will definitely feel the warmth of the words that you put into the content of the SMS.

• It is not at all necessary to ask for an apology in poetry or prose, because standard templates or poems composed by another person will not correctly and accurately convey the sincerity that you will put into an SMS message when writing an apology yourself.

• It is not recommended to write too long SMS with apologies, because only a brief summary of your mistakes will help the person who is offended by you to see that you really repent. Instead of trying to focus attention on your partner’s shortcomings or other not-so-best aspects of your character. The text of your SMS should not only be short, but also open and sincere.

• When a man is at fault, he should not criticize a girl for throwing tantrums or shedding tears. Because almost all women and girls can cry and get nervous during quarrels. And that's okay.

Writing an SMS with an apology to your husband or beloved wife is the easiest way to make peace. We selected the text, put a sad smiley face and that’s it, sit and wait for an answer.

But when a person reads a message, he does not see the expression on your face or the sparkle in your eyes, which is a very important factor when apologizing. Make an appointment with your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, explain in a calm atmosphere why you did this and say that you really miss this person and regret the quarrel that happened.

If a person values ​​you and loves you madly, then he will definitely apologize in return and will gladly move towards reconciliation. Author: Ekaterina Mayko

In this bustling world, one day two halves meet - He and She. Each couple has its own scenario for the development of relationships: a love story begins, unfolds and, sadly, comes to an end.

There are many reasons for separation: misunderstandings, accumulated grievances, betrayal, and simply a feeling that the relationship has reached a dead end.

Almost all stories have a beautiful beginning, but not everyone is able to put a beautiful end to it. It’s difficult to gather your thoughts and say calmly: “I’m sorry, we need to break up.” The voice may tremble treacherously, and tears will flow from the eyes.

If separation is inevitable, try writing a goodbye letter to your boyfriend or beloved man.

Girls, of course, are delicate creatures, but often they are the ones who take the courage and say the last “Goodbye”. It's much easier to talk about a breakup in writing.

You can write the message in your own words or use the samples that we have prepared for you.

Farewell letter to boyfriend

For example, this:

“Hello, bunny. You will probably be surprised that I am writing you a letter. We are used to talking to you. True, lately all our conversations end in quarrels. I thought for a long time, understood myself, analyzed our relationship and realized: this cannot continue.

I have already forgiven you. And goodbye!

whom you love

“Dear, good, beloved! I pulled myself together and decided to write to you in a letter everything that I could not express in words when we met. Our love has turned into some kind of one-sided ugly entity. I see that my efforts to improve relationships are leading nowhere.

You rarely call and perceive our meetings as a heavy duty. I’m not made of stone, and I feel it all.It hurts, it’s hard, I won’t pretend to be strong. I will cry, miss and worry about you.

But, so be it, I’m letting you go free. Fly towards your happiness. Unfortunately, I couldn't make you happy. May everything work out for you with another girl. Maybe you already have someone, but you’re afraid to say it. Fly, my dear, fly!

I'm letting you go. Forever. Goodbye!"

who offended

"Hi baby. I am writing you a farewell message in prose. There is not enough mental strength for poetry and rhymes. My strength left along with the tears, which I stopped with great difficulty in order to put an end to our story.

We began to quarrel often and say hurtful words to each other. We became strangers and incomprehensible to each other. The hands have ceased to be affectionate, there are no former strong hugs and... there is nothing at all.

Let's admit to each other that our love has turned into nothing, we destroyed it with our efforts. My resentment is too great to continue the relationship.

We are parting. Sorry and goodbye!"

which changed

"My dear! How difficult it is for me to gather my thoughts and tell you everything. Even in a letter, when you don’t see my tear-stained face. I know that you betrayed me. No not like this. You betrayed our love, our beautiful days and nights. Your action showed that I mean absolutely nothing to you.

Apparently I've become your habit. You call out of habit, you come out of habit, and you even apologize out of habit. You manage to do this somehow insensitively and insincerely. Why do we need extra problems? We both need to change something in our lives. You've already started.

Have a nice journey, dear! I forgive you and let you go. Forever."

Former

"Hi Hi! I don’t even know how to contact you now. The heart beats and shouts to you “beloved”, “dear”, “the only one”, and the mind sobers up and says “former” about you. Yes, you were a wonderful, wonderful moment in my life. Now it seems that everything was a dream. Morning came and our love dissolved.

After our separation, days and nights ceased to exist for me. I lived as if in some impenetrable fog. But the heavenly forces have had mercy, the fog is slowly dissolving, I see the outlines of the horizon. This means that I live and breathe deeply again.

You may no longer be in my reality, but no one will tear you out of my heart. Memories of our meetings will always warm and encourage me. Forgive me for all. Remember us. There was love. Goodbye!"

To my beloved husband

“My dear, dear man. Life has decreed that you and I have turned from two halves into two loneliness. I think about you every minute, my heart lives only with you. How did it happen that we are breaking up?

Do you remember our first meeting - our burning eyes, excitement and unquenchable desire to be together. Do you remember our days and nights? Do you remember how we missed each other?
Is love really doomed to death, like all living things in this world? If I love, how can you not love? This is somehow wrong, unfair. The feelings must be mutual.

Maybe you have been overwhelmed by so many problems that you have stopped hearing the voice of your heart? I will pray to heaven that your heart will be freed from captivity, that love will be resurrected in your soul. I wish you goodness, light, warmth and, of course, love!

I'm sorry. And goodbye!

Video: Letter to a loved one

For a married man

“Good, not my man. How difficult it is to write a letter to someone you still love! I had no right to fall in love with you, but I could not resist the surging feelings. It's surprising that you couldn't resist either.

I don’t know what to call our relationship, but it was beautiful, like a dream. As sad as it is, the time has come for both of us to wake up, look into each other's eyes for the last time, embrace each other for the last time and part.

You are married, return to your family, gather your strength and solve all the problems that have befallen you like a man. At first it will probably be difficult, you will rush back, but this is a path to nowhere. The wonderful dream dissolved in the rays of the clear sun, it was time to face reality.

Be happy with the one who is your legal wife. After all, you loved her once. I wish you reunion, understanding, warmth and light. I no longer want to be the cause of your quarrels and pain.

Forgive me and let me go"

who threw

"My love! I'm sorry, I can't call you anything else, because I love you and will always love you. It hurts me, I'm offended to the point of tears. Burning tears are what keep me warm in these last days and weeks. And before, your hands and lips warmed me.

My heart rejoiced and did not believe in my happiness. It beat like a free bird, ready to burst out of the chest. And now it beats dully and doomedly, as if forever imprisoned.

Why did you go away? He didn’t explain anything, didn’t say goodbye, didn’t hug. He just disappeared from my life and that’s it. I can’t believe that life goes on and you’re not there and won’t be there anymore. I believe in a miracle that you will come to your senses and want to return. Know, my dear, that I will always open my arms to meet you. I will be faithful to you until the end of my days.

Remember this. And be happy!

Whom you don't love

"Dear friend! I am glad that I met you on the path of life. You are a wonderful, sincere, interesting person. You know how to love and look after beautifully. I'm sorry I can't reciprocate your feelings. My heart does not respond to the call of your heart. You can probably guess this yourself.

I can no longer date you and continue this deception. Thank you for the love and warmth that you generously give, but believe me, I am not the one who will reciprocate your feelings. Let's part as friends before our relationship reaches a dead end. Keep this farewell letter and remember that I was honest with you.

Forgive me a hundred thousand times and let me go once. Goodbye!"

Letter to SMS

Modern girls can end a relationship by sending their ex-boyfriend a goodbye text message.

Here are some examples:

“Hare, it’s all over between us. Goodbye!"
“This can’t go on any longer, the love has passed, the tomatoes have wilted!”
“I'm sorry, it's over, we're not together anymore. Goodbye"

Remember that sending the “last” SMS is dangerous. There is a high probability of receiving a lot of perplexed or even offensive text messages in response. A beautiful one-way farewell letter on paper will indicate the seriousness of your intentions.

The choice is, of course, yours. Perhaps you, like Tatyana Larina, will want to rhyme your last message.

Touching poems

Everything in this world is not forever,
There is an edge to everything in the world.
I'll put my arm around your shoulders
And I’ll whisper: “Forgive me, goodbye.”
No need for further explanation
No need for tears or insults.
Let there be no love between us,
Let's part as friends.

It is difficult to decide and send a goodbye letter to a guy, even if it has already been written. In any case, it is better to throw out your pain and resentment on paper than in the face of your loved one.

Who knows, maybe this message will take your relationship to a new level, help resolve accumulated misunderstandings and mend faltering relationships. Be happy!

Darling, life is about mistakes, we learn from mistakes! After all, there is no pain stronger than that which lovers inflict on each other. And I stumbled and made a mistake. But the only person who doesn't make mistakes is the one who never does anything. I’m not making excuses, no, I just want you to understand that you are very dear to me, and everything that I don’t do is only because I’m afraid of losing you! The fear of losing you turned my head and I was wrong. And I ask you, beloved, do not judge me strictly, but understand. I apologize for what I did. I love you very much and will do everything for your happiness! Forgive me dear.

What we experience when we are in love is perhaps our normal state. Falling in love shows a person what he should be. And what I feel for you, beloved, cannot be compared with any feelings, I simply live with you. You know, I feel so bad because you are offended by me. I ask you not to be angry with me, because I didn’t do all this out of malice! The great dignity of man lies in his ability to correct his mistakes and constantly make a new man out of himself. And I will try not to repeat those mistakes and become better for you, because you are my incentive to become better! Forgive me, beloved!

Darling, I ask you not to be angry with me. After all, with you I want to live peacefully and in love. I want you and I to quarrel as little as possible. After all, it’s not easy for me without you! Please forgive me for what I did, but you know that I love you. Maybe I was so stupid because I’m so in love with you. So forgive me, please, dear. I need you a lot. I don’t want to lose you and I will do everything so that we fight together. I know that you have a very kind heart, and it radiates its kindness every day. Darling, remember that I love you very much.

Forgive me, beloved, for making such a thoughtless mistake, for acting so absurdly. And because you are now offended by me. I just want everything to be fine with us. So that you smile all the time, and I smilely watch your smile. I want our hearts to beat in rhythm, but my love, I was very wrong about you. Forgive me, I will improve. After all, all I have is you. This is your pure love. So let your heart rejoice again and there will be no more disagreements between us. I have thought about my mistakes and tell you that this will not happen again! After all, where you are is my home!

I feel sad because you feel sad. Because you are now sad because of me. Because I blurted out such stupidity to you without thinking. Sorry, please, darling. After all, all I have is you! You are my inspiration, which pushes me to great deeds. You are my reason to become better, you are my salvation. I’m not making excuses, but I want to make it clear that that stupidity happened because of my blind love for you. I just didn't think at all! I want you to forgive me, but I’ll think about it before I do anything. After all, all that matters to me in life now is you. You are my future! You are the same man who alarmed my heart!

How completely ridiculous it turned out on my part! I was completely stupid, dear. I know that I shouldn’t have behaved like that, but who hasn’t made a mistake, we are all not sinless. I know that even though you are angry, you still won’t be able to be angry with me for a long time. You and I are like a single whole, like one mechanism. We can't live without each other! And so I ask you to forgive me and not waste your nerves. After all, you are my kindest! And everything I do wrong is simply because I am very afraid of losing you! You are probably more valuable to me than I am! And that's why I sometimes do stupid things! But forgive me okay?

I'm probably more afraid than anything in the world of losing you. I'm afraid to be alone, without your gentle voice and warm hands. And in general, without you. So, darling, please don’t be angry with me for this stupidity of mine. I did everything out of stupidity, but in reality you know that I love you! And I love it very much! I don’t even want to think that you might disappear! So, as Leopold the cat said in the cartoon, “Darling, let’s live together!” Of course, he said it a little differently, but the essence is the same! I am for peaceful relations with you! Excuse me, stupid.