Mother's blessing: how to bless a child. Blessing a mother how to bless a child What is a Blessing for you

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It is very important to bless your children from early childhood, because whatever you call a boat, that’s how it will float. Addressing a child like “stupid”, “little pig”, etc. akin to a curse. And the appeal “my angel”, “my good one” (and other similar ones), like a good grain, will one day germinate, bearing small, medium or large fruit. Priest Dimitry Fetisov

What is Blessing for you?

I don’t want to give you everything that’s ready. I want to move you, stir you up, push you to think and feel))) Let’s figure it out together. What comes to mind first, what fills your heart when you hear this word?

Blessing… Stop and listen.

When I asked this question to my subscribers, I received many answers, but all the answers were different in meaning. Or rather, in the shade of meaning.

In general, all the answers were aimed at well-being, the desire to convey with blessing the best that can be imagined.

But what exactly was the best in each answer - that was the difference.

Firstly, people most often put into the meaning of this word exactly what they themselves needed. And the meaning that you saw/felt in the Blessing is most likely what you wanted to receive from your parents, but for some reason you did not receive, or you think that you did not receive.

Secondly, all people go through certain stages in their lives. And by how you define the Blessing, your location is very clearly determined. Are you still a child, are you in the process of growing and grown up, or are you already an adult and independent?

Either way, you can use your new understanding to make happy changes in your life.

Types of Blessings

I ended up dividing into three different groups:

Blessing is a talisman, protection, cover, who shelter their children from misfortune and misfortune. A dome under which there is a desire to create greenhouse conditions. This definition at its root carries the idea that the world is unsafe, that there is negativity, evil, misfortune, from which you want to protect and protect your children. There is also a sense of mistrust in it. They do not believe that an older daughter/son is able to choose what is best for herself or cope with the consequences of her choice.
Blessing is Trust yourself, the world, life, child. This is respect and faith in your children and their abilities. This is acceptance of your child and his choice. And it doesn’t matter at all what he chooses, work, lifestyle, life partner or attitude towards you. This is the knowledge that no matter what happens, this is the best for him and for you.
Blessing is Goodness. This is the Joy of being able to convey Inspiration for Life to your child. This is a parting word before a big life. This is a message: “I had a good time with you. I know you are strong. I know the world is wonderful. I am glad that we lived through this period of life together. I was glad to be a mediator between the Source and you. Now this is not necessary, you have grown up and know about your Power yourself. And not only do you know, but you also know how and use it. Be inspired to live your best life and be the Creator of your Joy. Live! Create! Enjoy!

Whatever it is, in any form, Blessing is the best thing a parent can pass on to their child.

How to Bless your child?

If you think that Blessing is just a ritual, and you can limit yourself to a one-time wish for the Good and goodness of your child, yes, you can. You will do well for both yourself and your child. But one ritual does not reveal the full potential of the Blessing.

You will bring much greater benefit, more good into your child’s life with your ability to live in joy yourself, and without the participation of your child; with your respect, recognition of his right to his life and his choice, acceptance and sincerity.

If all this is in your relationship, you are already Blessing him for happiness. And you do it in the most correct way, in my opinion.

If not yet, let this article be the beginning of Happy Changes or support in the Age of Your Changes)

What exactly should I do?

The very first thing on this path is to remove your expectations. All parents have an ideal picture of "What is Good" that can cover all areas of your child's life. From his inclinations and interests, to the choice of profession and spouse, methods of raising grandchildren and even lifestyle.

After all, you are a mother, you are older, wiser, smarter, and you know exactly how it should be... But is this so?

More often than not, this is “good” for you, not the baby. This time.

To make it clearer, look back. To your mother. Remember a time when she knew what was good for you. Remember all the bitterness that was born in you when you realized that you did not meet your mother's expectations? That she gives you an example of your friend or neighbor’s daughter. Do you want to convey this bitter taste further? No? That's great!

Second, but more fundamental: free yourself from grievances and obligations.

Are there any grievances against your child in your life? Do you feel that he/she owes you attention, help, or time? If yes, this is another trap for happiness. Happiness for parents and happiness for children.

Your relationships are your strength. What do you feel and take away from this relationship? Joy and support, a source of strength and inspiration, or resentment and understatement, a gaping hole and a parched desert in the soul?

I know it’s longer, more difficult, but, in my opinion, it’s more accurate. What do you think?

How does blessing work?

How to receive the Blessing yourself?

There are two options. The first option is that your parents, or someone from the older generation, is alive, and you can talk, forgive, let go of grievances and ask for forgiveness yourself.

What to do if there is no one to bless you?

In this case, you have to work hard yourself. And your journey can be quite long. The most important thing is that you need to free yourself from resentment.

Yes Yes. I'm talking about this again) Your grievances are your burden, which will never allow you to receive what you can receive from your elders, from your Family. Your liberation from this negative burden is part of your Blessing for a happy life.

Subtleties and nuances

1. Know that the Blessing of Need does not work. Or rather, it works, but does not reveal all its power. The most effective Blessing from Prosperity. Listen for yourself: “I wasn’t happy, although you should be happy,” this message carries a limitation in the form of a feeling of guilt imposed on your child. And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

“We were together, but I was not happy with you” - listen to this, because this is exactly the message we send to our children.

Or: - I feel fear for your life and your future, and I want to get rid of anxiety, I want peace in my life. “The world is a dangerous place. Other people are dangerous” is also not the most harmonious message for our children)

2. It seems to me that the Blessing is not just a ritual, but a whole way of life, a way of communicating with children. Again, this is my vision. If you are far from having a Blessed relationship with your children or parents, start by adding respect and goodwill to them.

3. These are the very first and simplest steps. If this seems impossible (everyone’s luggage from the past is different, there is no such thing as bad luggage, just unsorted luggage) - this is a very big topic, but we can look into it in the next article.

4. Blessing is multifaceted, it can carry more and more better things, even if the parent does not know about it. Often it is with the thought of the Blessing that the best changes in the relationship between children and parents are triggered. This means that you can master an amazingly powerful tool that allows you to trigger happy changes in your relationship with your mother and in your relationship with your children, and with the bonus of starting to harmonize your own life.

If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to think through your wishes for your child. Everything you wish at this moment will definitely come true. Therefore, formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities, not to build his life according to your plan, because you are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes!

Please do not wish anything specific, for example: “I wish you to have a higher education.” Maybe your child won’t want to have it, or maybe, on the contrary, he will want to have several different ones, but you have limited him in advance.

I give you son (daughter) _____ (name) my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity and wish you _____ (here you say everything that your soul wishes for the child).

Wishes that do not take away freedom of choice can be:
- I wish you to be, live, act, be able and have;
– I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you;
– I wish you to receive satisfaction and prosperity by engaging in your creative self-expression;
– I wish you to love and be loved;
– I wish you to have free will;
– I wish you to have an easy financial life;
– I wish you to have a source of strength, beauty and harmony in your heart and mind;
– I wish you to have self-confidence;
– I wish you to have the ability to breathe fully and freely;
– I wish you that your life flow heals every cell of your body;
– I wish you to have the ability to trust people;
– I wish you to have enough time, energy, wisdom, money to fulfill all your desires;
– I wish you to be able to successfully get to the right time and place;
– I wish you to be generous, accepting it entirely and with joy;
– I wish you to be an expression of the Divine Origin of life in all its greatness;
– I wish you to be ready to accept the best;
– I wish you to enjoy yourself and accept yourself as you are;
– I wish you everything _____, etc.

So, think carefully about what you would like to wish for your child and remember these wishes. At the moment of Blessing, they don’t read anything from a piece of paper!

If it is not possible to give the mother’s Blessing verbally – “eye to eye,” then the child is blessed in writing.
After reading any maternal prayer, the mother writes a letter to her child:

“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you ____ (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. "

Burn the written letter.

How to receive a maternal blessing as an adult

There is a simpler and more accessible way to solve this problem - simply write a letter to your mother and burn it. And it doesn’t matter whether she is alive or not, whether she lives far from you or in the same house with you. At the same time, telling your mother that you asked her for a Blessing is not at all necessary, but it is not even advisable. Even if your relationship with your mother is very trusting, this should be your little secret. Your letter is enough for mom to hear you.

You can light a candle and start your letter with emotion: “Hello, mom! I am writing to you from far away... I am writing you this letter with a request: give me, mother, a blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing...” And then you must write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason. These can be grievances and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write must be written.

Such a letter is not easy to write, and a lot of tears can be shed. Cry without holding back - these are tears of relief. If you want, you can tell your mom about your life, your joys and sorrows. When you write, do not pay attention to mistakes, the beauty of your handwriting and the completeness of your thoughts. No one will ever read this letter, and you don’t need to re-read it either. Your main task is to throw out everything unspoken on paper in order to restore and establish the finest threads of your relationship with your mother. You need to write until your thoughts dry up, and when your hand, as if by itself, writes “I bless you.” When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it and write down the date and time you finished writing.

What you need to do for the Mother's Blessing to come into your life

I am completely responsible for all the circumstances of my life

How to track the receipt of the Blessing

In life, everything obeys certain cycles. Thus, the grounding of material well-being occurs according to the 777 system. In this case, it is seven days, seven weeks and seven months. Therefore, we will track three stages.

First stage

On the seventh day after writing the letter, you need to track what will happen to the material side of your life. If your mother responded to your request and gave you her Blessing, then on the seventh day you will receive profit in your home. It can be expressed in money, valuable gifts and the like. If a debt was repaid to you, or you received money, or you found a penny on the street, or maybe you were given change in a store or given theater tickets - all this can be a sign that there is a Blessing.

It is very important to track what came first - profit or loss. If you are asked to borrow money, this is considered a sign that there is no Blessing. And there is no need to specially adjust the “profit” situation - this will not help you!

Attention! If there are no signs confirming the Blessing, or there have been no changes in material values on this day, you need to write the letter again. Don't stop halfway!

By delaying writing the letter again, you may incur losses! So, let’s say, on the seventh day after writing the letter, you received a profit - this means that the first stage of the Blessing has passed.

Second phase

Now we need to track the seventh week from the day the letter was written. If the maternal Blessing is really given to you, then in the seventh week your expenses for this week will be much less than your income. Again, not because you will save on purpose, but because circumstances will turn out that way. The income may exceed all your expectations. Well, what if the seventh week did not bring you the desired results?

On the contrary, you were asked to borrow money and the beggars did not pass you by either, or circumstances forced you to spend a lot. Don’t worry - our mothers very rarely “let us go” into an independent life at our first request! Be patient and, without delaying things, write to your mother again and ask for Blessings for life.

Let the letter be shorter each time - it doesn’t matter. The main thing is that your request must be made in writing, and also everything that was not once said by you must be “poured” onto paper to the last drop. Each such letter must be burned.

Third stage

After a successful seventh week, you need to track the seventh month from the day you wrote your letter to your mother. The seventh month may not bring a lot of money, but if you really receive the Blessing, this month will somehow lay a solid foundation for your well-being. This could be a new promising acquaintance, a lucrative offer of cooperation, a promotion, etc. And you will feel that you are standing firmly on your feet.

Bless the mothers of your children!

We can't stay away
And he is indifferent to Vera,
We are responsible for CHILDREN on earth!
Therefore, we must PRAY for them!

An ordinary day... Everyone has things to do in the morning.
The daughter shouted from the doorway as she walked:
“Mommy, see you soon! It's time for me to leave!
I'm hurrying to the subway! That's it! - I ran!"

- “Listen, daughter, to your old mother,
I can't calm my mental anxiety,
We must BLESS everyone on the road,
Prayers will help save you from trouble!”

Turned on the TV - Explosion in the subway!
It broke inside, it got cold...
My daughter is there! She left not long ago!
Even my heart ached from fear!

And the phone is silent! The pulse beats to the temple!
She scrolls through all the news in a row.
How can a daughter hear her voice?
“SAVE! HAVE MERCY!” - He repeats quietly.

And suddenly a call: “I’m a mother!” I am alive!
Well, just a MIRACLE! How did I manage?
I remembered the words of your prayer!”
“I didn’t see that my mother turned gray all over!”

BLESS THE MOTHERS OF CHILDREN!
God will always help them along the way!
A mother's prayer is the strongest in the world!
She can pull everyone out from the bottom of the sea!

Valentina Basova

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Mother's love is a very powerful force! And it doesn’t matter how old your child is - 5 or older, it’s never too late to bless!

There is no stronger amulet than your mother's blessing. After all, a mother is the most important person in a child’s life. If a child is often sick, be sure to bless him. If you have a difficult teenager, bless him. Even if the child is doing well, bless him to protect him from hangovers.

The blessing was first mentioned in the Old Testament of the Bible. God gave it to Adam and Eve when he appointed them to rule paradise, to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth.

How it works.

Mom is connected with her child by invisible threads until the end of her days. Its importance cannot be overestimated. Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, the child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.

You need to bless before any significant event, not only before starting an independent life or family life. For example, buying or selling an apartment, moving, starting a business.

The bottom line is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all actions in the right direction.

This amulet works even at the greatest distances. It is believed that a person blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable. It is impossible to refuse a blessing, even if the parents do not like the things to be given a blessing, otherwise the child may face failures that threaten life and health.

How to do it?

If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day. Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing. The soul of a mother is always a guardian angel for children; you can always turn to her!

Text of the prayer “Mother’s Blessing”

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Thy Most Pure One

Mother, hear me, Thy sinful and unworthy servant.

Lord, in the mercy of Your power my child, have mercy and save his name

For your sake.

Lord, forgive him all his sins, voluntary and involuntary,

what they have done before You.

Lord, guide him on the true path of Your commandments and give him understanding

and enlighten with Your light of Christ, for the salvation of souls and healing

Lord, bless him in the house, around the house, at school, in the field, at work and in

the road, and in every place of Your possession.

Lord, protect him under the shelter of Your Saints from a flying bullet,

arrow, knife, sword, poison, fire, flood, from a deadly plague (rays

atom) and from vain death.

Lord, protect him from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles and evils

and misfortunes.

Lord, heal him from all diseases, cleanse him from all filth

(wine, tobacco, drugs) and ease his mental suffering and

Lord, grant him the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years

life, health and chastity.

Lord, increase and strengthen his mental and physical abilities

Lord, give him Your blessing for a pious family

life and godly procreation.

Lord, grant me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant, parental

blessing for my child at present morning, afternoon, evening and night

for Thy name's sake, for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent.

Amen.

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Mom is the most important person in life. This is probably why a mother’s curse is the worst thing you can hear.

The blessing was first mentioned in the Old Testament of the Bible. God gave it to Adam and Eve when he appointed them to rule paradise, to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth.

There is no stronger amulet than mom's blessing. After all, a mother is the most important person in a child’s life. If a child is often sick, be sure to bless him.

If you have a difficult teenager, bless him. Even if the child is doing well, bless him to protect him from hangovers.

A mother's blessing can change a child's life. Take a few minutes for your child.

The blessing was first mentioned in the Old Testament of the Bible. God gave it to Adam and Eve when he set it to rule paradise, to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth. How it works. Mom is connected with her child by invisible threads until the end of her days. Its importance cannot be overestimated.

Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, the child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.

A blessing should be given not only before the start of family life, but also before any significant event. For example, buying or selling an apartment, moving, starting a business.

The essence of the blessing is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all the actions that the mother blessed for in the right direction. The blessing works even over long distances. It is believed that a person blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable.

It is impossible to refuse a blessing, even if the parents do not like the things to be given a blessing, otherwise the child may face failures that threaten life and health.

How to bless a child:

Over the next seven days, read the blessing prayer morning and evening. After a week, changes should follow, for example, the first successful results, albeit small ones. If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day.

Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing. The soul of a mother is a guardian angel for children, and you can contact her by writing a letter.

Prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Thy Most Pure Mother, hear me, Thy sinful and unworthy servant. Lord, in the mercy of Your power my child, have mercy and save him for Your name’s sake. Lord, forgive him all the sins, voluntary and involuntary, that he committed before You. Lord, guide him on the true path of Your commandments and enlighten him and enlighten him with Your light of Christ, for the salvation of the soul and the healing of the body. Lord, bless him in the house, around the house, at school, in the field, at work and on the road, and in every place of Your possession. Lord, protect him under the shelter of Your Saints from a flying bullet, arrow, knife, sword, poison, fire, flood, from a deadly plague (atomic rays) and from vain death. Lord, protect him from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles, evils and misfortunes. Lord, heal him from all diseases, cleanse him from all filth (wine, tobacco, drugs) and ease his mental suffering and sorrow. Lord, grant him the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health and chastity. Lord, increase and strengthen his mental abilities and physical strength. Lord, give him Your blessing for a godly family life and godly procreation. Lord, grant me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant, a parental blessing on my child at this time of morning, day, evening and night for the sake of Thy name, for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen."

How not to say too much:

If your children’s lives are not going well, do not rush to blame yourself, but analyze your behavior. The mother’s words at the subconscious level are perceived as the only possible truth.

Thus, the person, without realizing it, does everything possible to ensure that the mother’s wishes are fulfilled. Therefore, the energy with which the words are spoken is important. The moment simple words turn into screaming, negative emotions are released. Therefore, you need to communicate with children in a calm voice.

If you do say bad words, immediately ask for forgiveness. Definitely from the heart, because only sincere repentance can cleanse the biofield of negativity.

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When to read a prayer for blessing children

The blessing of parents is the most powerful prayer for children. The word of the mother and father is of great importance in the life of the child, it gives guidance, directs on the right path, encourages and supports at any age, because mother and child are connected all their lives by an invisible thread.

It’s not for nothing that our ancestors tried to take the blessing of their parents in everything they did. And before important life events: choosing a soul mate, a wedding, buying or building a house - and even more so. Unfortunately, today the tradition of taking parental blessings has been lost; this custom has been preserved only before the wedding. However, all parents should remember the importance of a kind word and read the Orthodox prayer for blessing their children.

Who can you pray to for the blessing of your children?

Adults understand perfectly well how many dangers await our children when we release them into adulthood. Bad company, drug addiction, idleness, 24/7 surfing the Internet, lack of purpose in life - all parents are afraid of this.

The text of the morning prayer for blessing children will help you to the best of your ability. It happens that a difficult situation arises in life, and we do not know what to do in relation to the child. In this case, the priests advise reading a prayer for children to study, and asking the Lord to enlighten our minds and send us a solution to the problem.

You should bless your child with prayer every time he leaves the house - sign him with the sign of the cross and read the prayer May God rise again, Psalm 26 or 90, and then no trouble will touch him. If the child protests, it seems to him like “zabubons,” then you can do this unnoticed.

Prayers for blessing children should be read from birth

Whether your child goes to kindergarten, school, takes exams, enters university, goes on vacation - with all, even the slightest changes in his life, read a prayer for the blessing of children in their studies. Let your word become a parting word for him, and let him accompany, protect, protect. In addition, try to teach your children to pray on their own from childhood - at an early age they can listen to the prayers that you read, and then they themselves will get used to turning to God every day. If you do not understand the Church Slavonic language well, then reading a prayer for the blessing of children in Russian is also not forbidden by the Orthodox Church.

Listen to the video of the prayer for blessing children

Read the text of the morning prayer for blessing children

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Thy Most Pure Mother, hear me, Thy unworthy servant (name). Lord, in Thy merciful power are my children (names), have mercy and save them, for Thy name’s sake. Lord, forgive them all the sins, voluntary and involuntary, that they committed before You. Lord, guide them on the true path of Your commandments and enlighten their minds with Your light, for the salvation of the soul and the healing of the body. Lord, bless them in every place of Your dominion. Lord, save them by the power of Your Honest and Life-giving Cross, under Your holy roof, from a flying bullet, arrow, sword, fire, from a deadly wound, water drowning and vain death. Lord, protect them from all visible and invisible enemies, from all trouble, evil, misfortune, betrayal and captivity. Lord, heal them from every illness and wound, from every defilement, and ease their mental suffering. Lord, grant them the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health and chastity in all piety and love, in peace and unanimity with the rulers around them, near and far. Lord, increase and strengthen their mental abilities and physical strength, return them healthy and prosperous to their parental home. All-merciful Lord, grant to me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant (name), a parental blessing on my children (names) at this time of morning (day, evening, night), for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen.

Text of a short prayer for blessing a child

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, bless, sanctify, preserve with the power of your life-giving Cross. (And apply the sign of the cross.)

Parental prayer for their children to the Lord Jesus Christ

Lord Jesus Christ, awaken Your mercy on my children (names), keep them under Your roof, cover them from all evil lust, drive away from them every enemy and adversary, open their ears and the eyes of their hearts, grant tenderness and humility to their hearts. Lord, we are all Your creation, have pity on my children (names) and turn them to repentance. Save, O Lord, and have mercy on my children (names) and enlighten their minds with the light of reason of Your Gospel and guide them on the path of Your commandments and teach them, O Savior, to do Your will, for You are our God.

A very strong prayer from a mother for her children to her Guardian Angel

Holy Guardian Angel of my child (name), cover him with your protection from the arrows of the demon, from the eyes of the seducer, and keep his heart in angelic purity. Amen.

Orthodox prayer for children to the Lady Most Holy Theotokos

O Most Holy Lady Virgin Theotokos, save and preserve under Your shelter my children (names), all youths, young women and infants, baptized and nameless and carried in their mother’s womb. Cover them with the robe of Your motherhood, keep them in the fear of God and in obedience to their parents, beg my Lord and Your Son to grant them what is useful for their salvation. I entrust them to Your maternal supervision, for You are the Divine Protection of Your servants.

Independent prayer of parents for the blessing of children in their studies to St. John Chrysostom

Oh, great saint John Chrysostom! You have received many and varied gifts from the Lord, and as a good and faithful servant, you have multiplied all the talents given to you for good: for this reason, you were truly a universal teacher, as every age and every rank learns from you. Behold, you appeared as an image of obedience to the youth, a luminary of chastity to the young, a mentor of hard work to the husband, a teacher of kindness to the old, a teacher of kindness to the monk, a rule of abstinence to those who pray, an inspired leader from God to those who pray, an enlightener of the mind to those who seek wisdom, to those who are kind-hearted, words are an inexhaustible source of living, to those who do good. - the star of mercy, the ruler - the image of the wise, the zealot of truth - the inspirer of boldness, the righteousness for the sake of the persecuted - the mentor of patience: you were everything to everyone, and you saved everyone. Over all of these you have acquired love, which is a union of perfection, and with that, as if by the power of the Divine, you have united all the gifts in your soul into one, and the reconciling love shared here, in the interpretation of the words of the apostles, you preached to all the faithful. We are sinners, we each have our own talent, we are not imams of unity of spirit in the union of peace, but we are vainglorious, irritating each other, envious of each other: for this reason, our division, divided not into peace and salvation, but into enmity and condemnation, has turned over to us. Moreover, we fall to you, the saint of God, servants of God (names), overwhelmed by discord, and in contrition of heart we ask: with your prayers drive away from our hearts all pride and envy that divides us, so that in many places we may remain one church body without restraint, so that In the words of your prayer, let us love each other and with one mind confess the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the Trinity, Consubstantial and Indivisible, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Read the text of the Orthodox prayer for the protection of children to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker

O our good shepherd and God-wise mentor, Saint Nicholas of Christ! Hear us sinners (names), praying to you and calling on your speedy intercession for help: see us weak, caught from everywhere, deprived of every good and darkened in mind from cowardice. Try, O servant of God, do not leave us in the captivity of sin, so that we may not joyfully be our enemy and die in our evil deeds. Pray for us unworthy of our Creator and Master, to whom you stand with disembodied faces: make our God merciful to us in this life and in the future, so that He will not reward us according to our deeds and the impurity of our hearts, but according to His goodness He will reward us . We trust in your intercession, we boast of your intercession, we call upon your intercession for help, and falling to your most holy image, we ask for help: deliver us, saint of Christ, from the evils that come upon us, so that for the sake of your holy prayers the attack will not overwhelm us and we will not be desecrated in the abyss of sin and in the mud of our passions. Pray to Saint Nicholas of Christ, Christ our God, that he may grant us a peaceful life and remission of sins, salvation and great mercy for our souls, now and ever and unto ages of ages.

Blessing the mother how to bless the child

Mother's blessing: how to bless a child

A mother's blessing is stronger than any amulet! Mom is the most important person in life. This is probably why a mother’s curse is the worst thing you can hear. The blessing was first mentioned in the Old Testament of the Bible. God gave it to Adam and Eve when he appointed them to rule paradise, to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth.

The importance of a mother can hardly be overestimated; it is not for nothing that she is connected with her child with invisible threads until the end of her days. Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, a child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.

A blessing should be given not only before the start of family life, but also before any significant event. For example, buying or selling an apartment, moving, starting a business. The essence of the blessing is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all the actions that the mother blessed for in the right direction.

The blessing works even over long distances. It is believed that a person blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable. It is impossible to refuse a blessing, even if the parents do not like the things to be given a blessing, otherwise the child may face failures that threaten life and health.

When blessing a mother for serious actions, she must read a prayer and then say a wish. At the same time, do not limit the child’s capabilities by wishing for specific actions and do not stipulate ways to achieve the goal. Over the next seven days, read the blessing prayer morning and evening. After a week, changes should follow, for example, the first successful results, albeit small ones. If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day. Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing. The soul of a mother is a guardian angel for children, and you can contact her by writing a letter.

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Unfortunately, the next day or week later, most of us forget about our good intentions and fall back into old negative habits.

Resolving to succeed and live a more productive, creative life is not enough because it does not address the core of the problem, which is faulty perception.

I have met people of different professions and social status, and I can assure you that the effectiveness or ineffectiveness of their actions, their successes or failures were in no way related to their level of intelligence or determination to succeed.

There is an answer to this not so simple question. A successful and happy life depends on the correct feedback between the surrounding reality and your consciousness and is directly related to the Blessing of the mother. If a person wants to change something in his life, first of all he needs to receive the blessing of his mother. For life, otherwise his attempts will end in failure every time.

To receive a mother's Blessing means to regain the energy of life that everyone needs in order to “live, get along, and make good.” Moreover, “good” is not only material values, but also everything else a person needs for a happy life. Unfortunately, the true meaning and hidden meaning of the Blessing, as well as the procedure for receiving it, were lost along with all the cultural wealth of our ancestors. To this day, only a few representatives of ancient families have conveyed this invaluable tradition, but the secret of the Blessing in such families is passed on from mouth to mouth and is not disclosed to outsiders.

“When I learned that my well-being directly depends on my mother’s Blessing, I, of course, rushed to my mother. I knew that my mother loved me, and I hoped that she would give it to me without hesitation. My friend tried to dissuade me, and, escorting me to my mother, she said: “Well, since you decided, so be it! But don’t forget to tell your mom everything that you would have told her as a child.”

When my mother, brothers and I were sitting at the festive table, having prepared a video camera to film this significant event, I began to say: “You know, mom, I wanted so much as a child for you to love me...”. But, without listening to me, my mother suddenly began to cry and began to list to us what she did to us and when, and how hard it was for her with us, and how I could only think that she didn’t love us! We tried to stop this avalanche of words and tears, but as a result, the video captured a huge scandal in our close-knit family.”

Today, every person, having adopted this technique, can receive the Mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity, and every mother can bless her children.

Having received the Blessing, you will see with your own eyes changes for the better in your life.

Reading myths, legends, fairy tales, books about the past, we sometimes come across the following lines: “The mother blessed him or her.”

For example, the fairy tale “Vasilisa the Beautiful” begins like this: “In a certain kingdom there lived a merchant. He lived in marriage for twelve years and had only one daughter, Vasilisa the Beautiful.

When Vasilisa's mother died, the girl was eight years old. Dying, the merchant’s wife called her daughter to her, gave her a doll and said: “Listen, Vasilisa! Remember and fulfill my last words - I am dying and, together with the parental Blessing, I leave you this doll. Take care of her. Always keep it with you and don’t show it to anyone. And when grief befalls you, give her something to eat and ask her advice. She will eat and tell you how to help your grief and misfortune...” Vasilisa had many trials and it was her mother’s Blessing that helped her cope with them. She even carried out all the orders of Baba Yaga. And when Baba Yaga asked how she managed it, Vasilisa answered: “The Blessing of my mother helps me.” Baba Yaga shouted: “So there it is! Get away from me! I don’t need a blessed daughter!”

After reading this fairy tale, we understand that the mother's Blessing has enormous power and protection. Even Baba Yaga turned out to be powerless against him and was forced to help the girl - give her magic fire.

Not a single person would refuse such a Gift as the Mother's Blessing, so that no fire would burn him, no life trials would be terrible.

But why doesn’t a mother today give a Blessing for the life of her child? Many women answered this question that they knew nothing about it.

But that's only half the story. The main thing is that as soon as the mother gives her blessing to the child, she becomes a “stepmother” for him. Along with the Blessing, the mother must give the child all his life energy, which the child transferred to her at birth.

The life energy of a child is what allows a mother to stay awake at night rocking her baby. These are the forces of a mother who is worried about the life of her child.

At birth, each person is given 100% of life energy.

Each person has their own amount of energy. It depends on the mission of a person and his calling and on how a person manages these energies and how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission. Young children give away their energy because, due to their weakness, they cannot take responsibility for their lives. As a rule, the child gives the mother 90% of the responsibility, leaving 10% only to remind herself. Growing up, the child learns independence and gradually “gains” percentages. By the age of eight, a child is ready to take full responsibility for his life.

At this age, the mother must give a blessing to the child, and until the age of fourteen he learns how to use the energy of life.

Usually, at this age, boys are trained in martial arts. They learn to protect themselves and others. At this time, girls, like Cinderella, undergo “practice”, learning how to run a household and keep things clean. It is at this age that children best learn how to take responsibility for their lives and learn to take risks.

At fourteen years of age, a child becomes an adult. He takes the path of vocation. At this age and until the age of 21, the father watches over the child. Only the father knows the path of the child’s calling, and the mother’s intervention can have a detrimental effect on his fate.

Well, if the mother did not give all responsibility to the child in time, then she continues to live his life.

You know those over-aged children who practically don’t live. They give the energy of their lives not only to their parents, but also to everyone around them.

By the age of 13-14, an unblessed child begins the so-called “difficult age” when disagreements arise between parents and children. The child “demands” his life energy, which he gave in childhood, but the parents do not give it. There is a struggle for life, for vital energy. The child says - I myself! The mother replies: “No! You can't do it without me! You are still small." In this struggle, the child is doomed to defeat, since the mother has total power. Only the prudence of the mother can help the child.

The mother gives a blessing to the child when he turns eight years old.

From eight to fourteen years of age, the Blessing is given orally - “eye to eye.”

The blessing is like first communion, so prepare it like a celebration. You can buy a gift, set a festive table.

Explain to the child before the Blessing that it returns the energy of life to him, and, knowing how to take responsibility, he will be able to fulfill his destiny. During the Blessing, the child receives the protection of the Mother of God, and difficulties will be avoided.

If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to read “A mother’s prayer for her child,” then think through the wishes for your child. Formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities and not to build his life according to your plan. You are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes!

Please don't wish for anything specific. Wishes should be such that they do not take away freedom of choice:

I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you.

I wish you to live in happiness and joy and have harmonious relationships with other people

I wish you satisfaction while pursuing your creative purpose.

I wish you to love and be loved

I wish you to have a source of strength and harmony in your heart and mind

I wish you to be confident in yourself

I wish you to have enough strength, energy and wisdom

I wish you the opportunity to always be in the right place at the right time.

I wish you to be generous, accepting your generosity entirely and with joy

I wish you to accept yourself as you are

I wish you everything that the Lord can give you...

The Blessing procedure is a Sacrament, so your communication with the child should take place without prying eyes. You can celebrate with family and friends, but the Blessing process itself must take place in a separate room.

Standing in front of the child and looking into his eyes, the mother says:

I give you son (daughter) _________ (name) my maternal Blessing for life and wish you... (here you say everything that your soul wishes for the child).

At the same time, you should have in your hands an icon of the Mother of God, purchased specifically for this occasion. Tell your child that this icon, together with your Blessing, will protect him. Pass the icon into his hands and kiss him. Your child is now blessed.

After the Blessing is given, you need to read the Blessing Prayer for seven days, preferably morning and evening.

This prayer will help the mother let her child go. This condition is very unusual for the mother and sometimes even causes slight discomfort for a while.

If your child is over 14 years old, then he is blessed in writing.

After reading “A Mother’s Prayer for a Child,” you write him a letter:

“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you... (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen."

Burn the written letter. Remember the date and time when you gave a written Blessing to your child. And monitor the child’s progress and behavior on the seventh day after the Blessing. If a child has no changes for the better, has no independence, and his successes do not please you, bless him again. Do this until you are sure that the Blessing has definitely passed.

Prayers before and after the Blessing must be read every time.

Many tried to receive the Blessing by talking to their mother. But, as a rule, such a Blessing did not produce results. If you definitely want to receive a Blessing from your mother personally, then you will have to express to her face both all the good and all the bad that you have accumulated over many years. And then she, in a “good” mood, should give you her Blessing.

Your letter is enough for mom to hear you.

First of all, you need to choose a time and place so that no one disturbs you while writing the letter. Place a photo of your mother on the table, and if there is no photo, imagine that your mother is sitting opposite you and you want to talk to her. You can light a candle. Read the “Appeal-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance,” and with tenderness begin your letter: “Hello, Mom! I am writing to you from far away... I am writing you this letter with a request: give me, mother, a blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing...” And then you must write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason. These can be grievances and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write must be written.

You need to write until your thoughts dry up, and when your hand, as if by itself, writes “I bless you.”

When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it and write down the date and time you finished writing.

It must be remembered that the Blessing of the mother is directly related to Responsibility for one’s life. Our life is structured in such a way that not everyone is ready to take 100% responsibility for all the circumstances of their life. Most often, a person avoids responsibility because he is afraid of the consequences of his decisions. As a rule, he thinks that he will be responsible for all his actions and bear the burden of guilt.

I would like to remind you that responsibility is completely unrelated to the concepts of “response” and “guilt”. Responsibility is the energy of life. It is associated with self-confidence and the energy of life that a person receives at birth.

It is important to note here that how a person manages these energies will determine how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission.

Imagine that you are almost at your destination. You can already see the city, but you do not have enough gasoline to enter this city. You can ask drivers passing by for some gas, but if they give you their gas, they won't have enough to get there themselves. Typically, few people will stop to help you.

For the Mother’s Blessing to come into your life, you must not waste your responsibility for seven days. In doing so, try to follow these recommendations:

1. Do not feel sorry, do not blame or reproach others.

2. Write down all the things you need to do. And do 2-5 things a day, so that no more than three remain.

3. Say out loud every day:

I am completely responsible for all the circumstances of my life

4. Stop doubting. I did it because I did it. If you doubt your actions, then it is fear, guilt or resentment.

5. Trust people more and stop controlling them. The phrase helps: “The less I interfere, the better it turns out.”

6. In the evening before going to bed, read the “Address-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance.”

In life, everything obeys certain cycles. Thus, the grounding of material well-being occurs according to the 777 system. In this case, it is seven days, seven weeks and seven months.

Therefore, we will track three stages.

On the seventh day after writing the letter, you need to track what will happen to the material side of your life.

If your mother responded to your request and gave you her Blessing, then on the seventh day you will receive profit in your home. It can be expressed in money, valuable gifts and the like. If a debt was repaid to you, or you received money, or you found a penny on the street, or maybe you were given change in a store or given theater tickets - all this can be a sign that there is a Blessing.

It is very important to track what came first - profit or loss. If you are asked to borrow money, this is considered a sign that there is no Blessing.

And there is no need to specially adjust the “profit” situation - this will not help you!

If there are no signs confirming the Blessing, or there have been no changes in material values on this day, you need to write the letter again.

Don't stop halfway!

By delaying writing the letter again, you can incur LOSSES!

So, let’s say, on the seventh day after writing the letter, you made a profit - this means that the first stage of the Blessing has passed.

Now we need to track the seventh week from the day the letter was written.

If the maternal Blessing is really given to you, then in the seventh week your expenses for this week will be much less than your income. Again, not because you will save on purpose, but because circumstances will turn out that way.

The income may exceed all your expectations.

Well, what if the seventh week did not bring you the desired results? On the contrary, you were asked to borrow money and the beggars did not pass you by either, or circumstances forced you to spend a lot. Don’t worry - our mothers very rarely “let us go” into an independent life at our first request! Be patient and, without delaying things, write to your mother again and ask for Blessings for life. Let the letter be shorter each time - it doesn’t matter. The main thing is that your request must be made in writing, and also everything that was not once said by you must be “poured” onto paper to the last drop.

Each such letter must be burned.

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...here the Angel opened his wings to protect you, my child!

“I gave you life, but I can’t live it for you...

And if WE – having reached the level of OUR SOUL in PRAYER – ASK –

WE CREATE A FUTURE WITH SOUL for EVERYONE, for parents, for ourselves, children, grandchildren, friends and acquaintances.

Prayer is similar to the action of the Rooster - it crows, and then at least it’s not dawn.

But the goal of the community is to teach UNITY WITH YOUR SOUL, with GOD in YOURSELF, and to CREATE in UNITY from the position of the POWER OF THE CREATOR, and not to beg for good from some GOD artificially removed from us.

But there is hope that if you often enter your SOUL, then in the end you will remain there - you will merge with it.

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Ayurveda says that speech is a manifestation of prana.

The most successful people are those who speak pleasantly and know how to control their speech.

The one who criticizes us gives us his positive karma and takes away our bad.

Another simple rule related to speech is that if we have done something good to someone and boasted about it to others, then at that moment we lose the positive karma and all our fruits of piety that we earned by this act.

Our children are another thread connecting us to God!

The journey of life has been covered in just a month.

Well, why aren't you sleeping again, girl?

What night don't you let me sleep!?

Stubborn cry and wet eyelashes,

It’s dark outside the window, but I can’t calm my daughter down,

Well, my child, can’t you sleep,

What do you want to tell me, dear?

Perhaps fear has disturbed my heart,

The mother feels and understands everything.

Your misfortune, although it is impossible,

I wanted to take it if I could!

Oh, if I were your destiny

Could cleanse from human evil,

Risking my life for you,

I would do everything, I would give all my strength!

But there is such a force in the Universe,

Which is even greater than maternal powers,

Protector of the offended and weak,

Who wouldn’t ask her in trouble!

“God loves us, don’t be afraid, my baby,

His Love is the strongest!”

The mother approached the open window:

“Now I will ask Him!”

Dawn will tiptoe through the window,

The baby sleeps, snoring into his nose,

The mother prays with tired lips,

Salty and wet with tears.

* The body is your fundamental truth, never be against it. If you are against the body, then you deny God. When you disrespect your body, you lose contact with reality, because it is the body that provides this contact. Your body is a bridge. Your body is a temple. The body is great. This is the greatest secret.

* However, you were taught to neglect the body. Sometimes you are fascinated by the mystery of a tree, a green tree, or the mystery of the moon and the sun, or a flower, but you are never fascinated by your own body. But your body is the most complex phenomenon in life. Not a single flower, not a single tree has such a beautiful body as yours. Neither the moon, nor the sun, nor the star have developed such a mechanism as you have.

* You were taught to appreciate the beauty of a flower, a simple flower. You were taught to appreciate the beauty of a tree, a simple tree. You were taught to appreciate the beauty of stones, rocks, mountains, rivers, but you were never taught to respect your own body, you were never taught to be fascinated by it. Yes, it is very close, and therefore it is easy to forget about it. But the body is the most beautiful phenomenon.

* When someone admires a flower, people exclaim: “How aesthetic!” And when someone admires the beautiful face of a woman or a man, people say: “This is lust.”

* If you go up to a tree, stand next to it and look at the flower in fascination - with your eyes wide open, absorbing all the charm of the flower with all your senses, then people will consider you a poet, an artist, a mystic. But if you approach a woman or a man, and look at the woman with respect and admiration with wide open eyes, reveling in her beauty with all your senses, then the police will be interested in you.

* First of all, you need to learn to respect your body, forget all the nonsense about the body that you were taught. Otherwise you will never turn yourself outward, never turn yourself inward, never go beyond yourself. Start from the beginning. The body is your beginning.

* The body must be cleansed of any violence. The body needs great catharsis. The body became poisoned because you were against it, you suppressed it in every possible way. Your body gets by on the bare minimum, that's why you're unhappy. Bliss is possible only when you live to the maximum, and not otherwise. Bliss is possible when you live intensely. How can you live intensely if you are against the body? A man leads a drab life, the fire of his life barely glows. The fire actually went out. This fire has been destroyed for centuries. It needs to be rekindled. First you need to cleanse your body, cleanse your body of all types of violence. It is necessary to resume the flow of his energy, to eliminate all clamps.

* It is very difficult to meet a person who does not have energy clamps, it is difficult to find someone whose body is not tense. Relax, tension only blocks your energy. Because of this tension, the free flow of energy becomes impossible.

* Why are all people so uptight? Why is it so hard to relax? Have you seen a cat sleeping, dozing in the afternoon? How simply and how skillfully he relaxes. Can't you relax the same way? You toss and turn in bed, unable to shake off the tension.

* From childhood, man was taught to live in tension. A person does not breathe because of fear. Because of the fear of sexuality, people stopped breathing, because when you breathe deeply, the breath goes directly to the center of sex and hits it, massages it from the inside, excites it. Because adults teach that sex is dangerous, all children begin to breathe shallowly, at chest level. The child never breathes deeper, because suddenly he can feel excited: sexual interest appears, and with it fear. If you breathe deeply, sexual energy is released.

* Sexual energy needs to be released. It should flow freely throughout the body. Then your body will become orgasmic. And you are afraid to breathe, so afraid that almost half of your lungs are filled with carbon dioxide. There are six thousand alveoli in the lungs, and, as a rule, three thousand of them are never cleared, always remaining filled with carbon dioxide. That's why you look so dull, that's why you lack vitality, that's why awareness is difficult. Carbon dioxide is not needed by humans; it must be constantly removed by the lungs. You need to breathe in new, fresh air, you need to breathe in more oxygen. Oxygen will ignite your inner fire, oxygen will cause you to be engulfed in flames. But the oxygen will also set your sexuality on fire.

* The whole point is that when you are absolutely free, you can achieve a lot. Only very, very sexy and energetic people can be intelligent. Moreover, the postulate that sex was sinful dealt a blow to the intellect, and this blow must have been very strong. When the flow of sexual energy has no barriers, when there are no conflicts in the sexual sphere, when you develop your sexuality, your mind functions optimally. You will be intelligent, aware, alive. You need to make friends with the body.

* Do you feel your own body, or do you feel like you are in a dead crypt? That's what's happening. People are almost in a frozen state, they carry their body with them like a coffin. It is heavy, it is uncomfortable, it interferes with the perception of reality. If you allow the electricity of your body to flow from your toes to your head, if you give energy, your bioenergy, complete freedom, then you will become a river, you will not feel the body at all. You will become almost incorporeal. If you don't fight the body, you will become incorporeal. Conversely, the body will become a burden if you fight with it. And if you carry your body like a burden, then you will never enter the kingdom of God.

* It won't be easy to start respecting your body. You judged him, always found faults in him. You never appreciated him, you never loved him; and suddenly you wanted a miracle, for someone to come and love your body. If you yourself cannot love him, then no one will love him, since your vibrations will repel people.

* You can fall in love with a person who loves himself, but not vice versa. First you need to love yourself, only from this center can another love grow. You don't love your body. You hide it in a thousand ways. You hide the smell of your body, you wrap it in clothes, you hide your body under jewelry. You are trying to create some kind of beauty that you always think you are missing; thus you become artificial.

* Once you start accepting yourself, you will become beautiful. When you are delighted with your body, you will admire others too. Many will fall in love with you because you are in love with yourself. Now you are dissatisfied with yourself. You know that you are ugly, you know that you are disgusting, terrible. This self-image will only push people away, your self-image will not help them fall in love with you, they will shun you. Even when they approach you, they will feel your vibrations and move away.

* There is no point in running after someone. The need to chase after someone only appears when we don’t love ourselves. Otherwise, someone would have appeared in your life. It’s impossible not to fall in love with you if you love yourself. Love your body, make friends with it, honor it, respect it, take care of it, it is a gift from God. Treat it well and it will reveal great secrets to you. Your entire development will depend on how you treat your body. Elena Mag-TAROLOGIST

Mother's blessing: how to bless a child

How does blessing work?
The importance of a mother can hardly be overestimated; it is not for nothing that she is connected with her child with invisible threads until the end of her days. Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, a child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.

How to bless a child
When blessing a mother for serious actions, she must read a prayer and then say a wish. At the same time, do not limit the child’s capabilities by wishing for specific actions and do not stipulate ways to achieve the goal. Over the next seven days, read the blessing prayer morning and evening. After a week, changes should follow, for example, the first successful results, albeit small ones. If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day. Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing. The soul of a mother is a guardian angel for children, and you can contact her by writing a letter.

Prayer

How not to say too much If your children’s lives are not going well, do not rush to blame yourself, but analyze your behavior. The mother’s words at the subconscious level are perceived as the only possible truth. Thus, the person, without realizing it, does everything possible to ensure that the mother’s wishes are fulfilled. Therefore, the energy with which the words are spoken is important. The moment simple words turn into screaming, negative emotions are released. Therefore, you need to communicate with children in a calm voice. If you do say bad words, immediately ask for forgiveness. Definitely from the heart, because only sincere repentance can cleanse the biofield of negativity.

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There are places that have miraculous powers. But if you can’t go there, it doesn’t matter. Focus on something else. Look at what names fall according to the calendar on the day the baby was born. It might make sense to choose one of them. Then the baby will have a strong patron. Or find a temple where this saint is revered and baptize the child there.

Many people think that by baptizing a child, they have fulfilled their mission. And godparents remember their ward only on the baby’s birthday. But it's not that simple. The child needs to be gradually introduced to the Bible, told about the saints, and master rituals with him. At first it is better to do this at home; until the age of three, you should not bring your baby to services, he will involuntarily make noise. Explain to your child at home how to behave in church, talk about your faith - in the simplest words. Tell us how the holy icon helped you during a difficult period of your life. The child must understand that church is not some rituals he does not understand, but a part of life that will gradually become a necessity.

Church-Chapel of the Holy Equal-to-the-Apostles Princess Olga

This chapel is assigned to the Church of the Ascension of the Lord outside the Serpukhov Gate and (Moscow) and at the same time is a baptismal house at the temple. Saint Olga is called the protector; she protects from troubles and misfortunes. People turn to her during difficult periods of life when support is needed. This is why many parents choose this temple to baptize their child, especially if they decide to name the girl Olga. In addition, the chapel is famous for its good staff and friendly attitude towards parishioners. In addition to the cross, here you can buy a small silver icon with the image of Olga, which hangs on the same chain as the cross. Let her be with the child all the time.

Annunciation Church-Baptismal Church

The baptismal sanctuary operates at the Assumption Cathedral (Penza). The temple has existed since 1899 and is a famous place of pilgrimage. Children are brought here for baptism not only from the Penza region, but also from other places. Here you can purchase all the things you need for baptism.

Holy Trinity Cathedral of the Alexander Nevsky Lavra

This is the oldest temple in St. Petersburg, it was founded in 1713, the place for its foundation was chosen by Peter the Great himself. The holy image of the Mother of God “Neva Quick to Hear” icon is kept here, which was in Leningrad during the siege and, according to many testimonies, helped people avoid starvation. Also kept here are the icon of the holy martyr Paraskeva Friday, the icon of St. Blessed Grand Duke Alexander Nevsky.

Icon of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker, Archbishop of Myra, icon of the holy great martyr healer Panteleimon. There are many people who want to be baptized here, so you need to sign up in advance. If you come from another city, you can contact the temple’s pilgrimage service, which will help you stay in a hotel and navigate the schedule of services.

Cathedral of Christ the Savior in Moscow

There is a myth that only VIPs can baptize their child in the main temple of the country. But it turns out that it is available to everyone. In the Alekseevsky chapel of the lower Transfiguration Church a baptistery was built, where baptism with full immersion is performed. To do this, you need not only to pre-register, but also for parents and godparents to go through an introductory conversation. During it, the priest tries to understand whether you understand what the rite of baptism is and whether you are ready for it. If it seems to him that you are doing this unreasonably, he may suggest that you postpone the baptism to a later date and give you literature to read. Imagine how you will feel if, with the entire retinue of relatives called for the christening, you are sent home, and this may well happen. So it is better to come to the sacrament only for parents and godparents and to pay more attention to spiritual preparation than to the festive table and outfits.

Kiev-Pechora Lavra

Any Orthodox person should come to this holy place, famous for its miracles, at least once in their life. And baptism received in the Lavra has a special meaning for the believer. The conditions for baptism here are approximately the same as in the main Moscow church. Registration is required in advance; an interview is required before baptism.

A mother's blessing is the most powerful amulet for a child. This invisible energy protection stays with a person throughout his life. She is always with him, and even when his mother is far away or no longer alive. By creating a kind of protective capsule, maternal blessing protects against troubles, failures, the evil eye or curses. From it a person can draw strength, inspiration and well-being. A mother first gives a blessing to her child in childhood, and then before every significant event in his life. How to bless children correctly? At what age to start, and what prayers to accompany?

The sacrament of blessing a child

The first blessing should take place at the conscious age of the child. In ancient Slavic culture it was believed that awareness comes at the age of 7-8. A little person thinks about his life’s purpose, identifies himself and learns to take responsibility. At this age, the mother transfers to the child all the life energy accumulated for him. There is a tradition of blessing. It is like first communion – a holiday for the whole family. On this day, the child is given gifts and a festive table is set. But first, the mother prepares for the blessing - she buys an icon of the Mother of God, learns prayers, and ponders parting words.

The sacrament of blessing occurs without witnesses. The mother takes the icon in her hands and, standing right in front of the child, says “A mother’s prayer for her child,” after which she turns to the child with sincere wishes coming from the heart: “I give you, son/daughter (name), my mother’s blessing for life and I wish you...” Wishes should be well thought out, cover the interests of the child, guide him on the path of goodness and love, but should not limit his freedom of choice. At the end of the sacrament, the mother kisses the child and gives him the icon of the Mother of God with a request to keep it and turn to it with prayer in difficult moments. From this moment on, the child is under the protection of the Mother of God and the Mother’s Blessing.

After the sacrament of blessing, the mother reads a special prayer in the morning and evening for seven days:

“Lord Almighty and Mother of God! Lead me into the image of Heavenly Motherhood. Communicate true Love, Mercy, Long-suffering in the upbringing of children, whom I entrust entirely to the Most Holy Will and place in your care. May my Mother's Blessing for Life, abundance and prosperity merge with yours. Blessed Mother of God, Mother of a new Spiritual rebirth, heal the wounds of Your children with Your Motherly Love. May they be healed and made alive in the Lord. Heavenly Eminence, Mother of God, on the altar of holy Love. I give yours without reserve to my son (my daughter) (name). Oh, All-Blessed One, help me to see in suffering, sanctify the sacrifice and bless the Path. Amen".

Blessings of a child after 14 years and an adult

Until the age of 14, a child learns to use the life energy transmitted by his mother. After 14 years, a second blessing occurs, and this time a written blessing. Before writing the blessed farewell, the mother reads “A mother’s prayer for her child.” The letter can be written in any form, but at the end add: “In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen". The mother burns the written letter and seven days later observes the child’s progress. If the mother’s heart does not notice changes for the better in the child’s life, she needs to write the letter again. You can give a written blessing until it starts working.

A child who does not have a mother and an adult who did not receive a mother's blessing in childhood or does not have the opportunity to be blessed in real time can also ask the mother for a blessing in writing. To do this, you should retire to a quiet place, light a candle, put up a photo of your mother (if you have one) and read the “Prayer-Appeal.” When peace comes and the soul connects with the vibrations of prayer, it’s time to start writing a letter. In a letter, you can lay out all your experiences or even grievances associated with childhood, ask your mother for forgiveness and forgive yourself all her mistakes.

Mother's blessing

Mother's blessing: how to bless a child

How does blessing work?
The importance of a mother can hardly be overestimated; it is not for nothing that she is connected with her child with invisible threads until the end of her days. Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, a child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.

How to bless a child
When blessing a mother for serious actions, she must read a prayer and then say a wish. At the same time, do not limit the child’s capabilities by wishing for specific actions and do not stipulate ways to achieve the goal. Over the next seven days, read the blessing prayer morning and evening. After a week, changes should follow, for example, the first successful results, albeit small ones. If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day. Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing. The soul of a mother is a guardian angel for children, and you can contact her by writing a letter.

Prayer

How not to say unnecessary things If your children’s lives are not going well, do not rush to blame yourself for it, but analyze your behavior. The mother’s words at the subconscious level are perceived as the only possible truth. Thus, the person, without realizing it, does everything possible to ensure that the mother’s wishes are fulfilled. Therefore, the energy with which the words are spoken is important. The moment simple words turn into screaming, negative emotions are released. Therefore, you need to communicate with children in a calm voice. If you do say bad words, immediately ask for forgiveness. Definitely from the heart, because only sincere repentance can cleanse the biofield of negativity.

Source:
http://www.vsluhblog.ru/2012/02/blagoslovenie.html

Mother's Blessing

I don’t remember where and when I copied this method. Works great. Please read carefully before taking action.

Mother's blessing

You have no doubt been told that to live a happier and more fruitful life, you need to have self-confidence and the right mindset. Those who advise you to develop willpower are right, but they have not progressed very far towards your goal. We all know from childhood that the simple desire to succeed and live more fruitfully is often not enough. Of course, we experience joyful excitement when we are told: “All you have to do is make a firm decision to change your life, and then you will achieve what you want.”
Unfortunately, the next day or week later, most of us forget about our good intentions and fall back into old negative habits.
Resolving to succeed and live a more productive, creative life is not enough because it does not address the core of the problem, which is faulty perception.
I have met people of different professions and social status, and I can assure you that the effectiveness or ineffectiveness of their actions, their successes or failures were in no way related to their level of intelligence or determination to succeed.

Why is one person just lucky from the first days of his career? Looking at his life, you see that he is protected from unpleasant events and has the energy of life to overcome obstacles along the way, while the other suffers failures, and if he succeeds, he spends a lot of effort...
There is an answer to this not so simple question. A successful and happy life depends on the correct feedback between the surrounding reality and your consciousness and is directly related to the Blessing of the mother. If a person wants to change something in his life, first of all he needs to receive the blessing of his mother. For life, otherwise his attempts will end in failure every time.
To receive a mother's Blessing means to regain the energy of life that everyone needs in order to “live, get along, and make good.” Moreover, “good” is not only material values, but also everything else a person needs for a happy life. Unfortunately, the true meaning and hidden meaning of the Blessing, as well as the procedure for receiving it, were lost along with all the cultural wealth of our ancestors. To this day, only a few representatives of ancient families have conveyed this invaluable tradition, but the secret of the Blessing in such families is passed on from mouth to mouth and is not disclosed to outsiders.
“When I learned that my well-being directly depends on my mother’s Blessing, I, of course, rushed to my mother. I knew that my mother loved me, and I hoped that she would give it to me without hesitation. My friend tried to dissuade me, and, escorting me to my mother, she said: “Well, since you decided, so be it! But don’t forget to tell your mom everything that you would have told her as a child.”
When my mother, brothers and I were sitting at the festive table, having prepared a video camera to film this significant event, I began to say: “You know, mom, I wanted so much as a child for you to love me...”. But, without listening to me, my mother suddenly began to cry and began to list to us what she did to us and when, and how hard it was for her with us, and how I could only think that she didn’t love us! We tried to stop this avalanche of words and tears, but as a result, the video captured a huge scandal in our close-knit family.”

Literally bit by bit we managed to restore the tradition of Mother's Blessing.
Today, every person, having adopted this technique, can receive the Mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity, and every mother can bless her children.
Having received the Blessing, you will see with your own eyes changes for the better in your life.

What do we know about the Blessing?
Reading myths, legends, fairy tales, books about the past, we sometimes come across the following lines: “The mother blessed him or her.”
For example, the fairy tale “Vasilisa the Beautiful” begins like this: “In a certain kingdom there lived a merchant. He lived in marriage for twelve years and had only one daughter, Vasilisa the Beautiful.
When Vasilisa's mother died, the girl was eight years old. Dying, the merchant’s wife called her daughter to her, gave her a doll and said: “Listen, Vasilisa! Remember and fulfill my last words - I am dying and, together with the parental Blessing, I leave you this doll. Take care of her. Always keep it with you and don’t show it to anyone. And when grief befalls you, give her something to eat and ask her advice. She will eat and tell you how to help your grief and misfortune...” Vasilisa had many trials and it was her mother’s Blessing that helped her cope with them. She even carried out all the orders of Baba Yaga. And when Baba Yaga asked how she managed it, Vasilisa answered: “The Blessing of my mother helps me.” Baba Yaga shouted: “So there it is! Get away from me! I don’t need a blessed daughter!”
After reading this fairy tale, we understand that the mother's Blessing has enormous power and protection. Even Baba Yaga turned out to be powerless against him and was forced to help the girl - give her magic fire.
Not a single person would refuse such a Gift as the Mother's Blessing, so that no fire would burn him, no life trials would be terrible.
But why doesn’t a mother today give a Blessing for the life of her child? Many women answered this question that they knew nothing about it.
But that's only half the story. The main thing is that as soon as the mother gives her blessing to the child, she becomes a “stepmother” for him. Along with the Blessing, the mother must give the child all his life energy, which the child transferred to her at birth.
The life energy of a child is what allows a mother to stay awake at night rocking her baby. These are the forces of a mother who is worried about the life of her child.
At birth, each person is given 100% of life energy.
Each person has their own amount of energy. It depends on the mission of a person and his calling and on how a person manages these energies and how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission. Young children give away their energy because, due to their weakness, they cannot take responsibility for their lives. As a rule, the child gives the mother 90% of the responsibility, leaving 10% only to remind herself. Growing up, the child learns independence and gradually “gains” percentages. By the age of eight, a child is ready to take full responsibility for his life.
At this age, the mother must give a blessing to the child, and until the age of fourteen he learns how to use the energy of life.
Usually, at this age, boys are trained in martial arts. They learn to protect themselves and others. At this time, girls, like Cinderella, undergo “practice”, learning how to run a household and keep things clean. It is at this age that children best learn how to take responsibility for their lives and learn to take risks.
At fourteen years of age, a child becomes an adult. He takes the path of vocation. At this age and until the age of 21, the father watches over the child. Only the father knows the path of the child’s calling, and the mother’s intervention can have a detrimental effect on his fate.
Well, if the mother did not give all responsibility to the child in time, then she continues to live his life.
You know those over-aged children who practically don’t live. They give the energy of their lives not only to their parents, but also to everyone around them.
By the age of 13-14, an unblessed child begins the so-called “difficult age” when disagreements arise between parents and children. The child “demands” his life energy, which he gave in childhood, but the parents do not give it. There is a struggle for life, for vital energy. The child says - I myself! The mother replies: “No! You can't do it without me! You are still small." In this struggle, the child is doomed to defeat, since the mother has total power. Only the prudence of the mother can help the child.

How to give a blessing to children
The mother gives a blessing to the child when he turns eight years old.
From eight to fourteen years of age, the Blessing is given orally - “eye to eye.”
The blessing is like first communion, so prepare it like a celebration. You can buy a gift, set a festive table.
Explain to the child before the Blessing that it returns the energy of life to him, and, knowing how to take responsibility, he will be able to fulfill his destiny. During the Blessing, the child receives the protection of the Mother of God, and difficulties will be avoided.
If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to read “A mother’s prayer for her child,” then think through the wishes for your child. Formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities and not to build his life according to your plan. You are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes!
Please don't wish for anything specific. Wishes should be such that they do not take away freedom of choice:
I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you.
I wish you to live in happiness and joy and have harmonious relationships with other people
I wish you satisfaction while pursuing your creative purpose.
I wish you to love and be loved
I wish you to have a source of strength and harmony in your heart and mind
I wish you to be confident in yourself
I wish you to have enough strength, energy and wisdom
I wish you the opportunity to always be in the right place at the right time.
I wish you to be generous, accepting your generosity entirely and with joy
I wish you to accept yourself as you are
I wish you everything that the Lord can give you...

So, think carefully about what you would like to wish for your child and remember these wishes. At the moment of Blessing, they don’t read anything from a piece of paper!
The Blessing procedure is a Sacrament, so your communication with the child should take place without prying eyes. You can celebrate with family and friends, but the Blessing process itself must take place in a separate room.
Standing in front of the child and looking into his eyes, the mother says:
I give you son (daughter) _________ (name) my maternal Blessing for life and wish you... (here you say everything that your soul wishes for the child).
At the same time, you should have in your hands an icon of the Mother of God, purchased specifically for this occasion. Tell your child that this icon, together with your Blessing, will protect him. Pass the icon into his hands and kiss him. Your child is now blessed.
After the Blessing is given, you need to read the Blessing Prayer for seven days, preferably morning and evening.
This prayer will help the mother let her child go. This condition is very unusual for the mother and sometimes even causes slight discomfort for a while.

How to give a Blessing to a child over fourteen years old
If your child is over 14 years old, then he is blessed in writing.
After reading “A Mother’s Prayer for a Child,” you write him a letter:
“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you... (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen."
Burn the written letter. Remember the date and time when you gave a written Blessing to your child. And monitor the child’s progress and behavior on the seventh day after the Blessing. If a child has no changes for the better, has no independence, and his successes do not please you, bless him again. Do this until you are sure that the Blessing has definitely passed.
Prayers before and after the Blessing must be read every time.

If a child over eight years old, his birth mother has died or meeting her is impossible, he can ask for a Blessing in writing.

How to receive a maternal blessing as an adult
Many tried to receive the Blessing by talking to their mother. But, as a rule, such a Blessing did not produce results. If you definitely want to receive a Blessing from your mother personally, then you will have to express to her face both all the good and all the bad that you have accumulated over many years. And then she, in a “good” mood, should give you her Blessing.
There is a simpler and more accessible way to solve this problem - simply write a letter to your mother and burn it. And it doesn’t matter whether she is alive or not, whether she lives far from you or in the same house with you. At the same time, telling your mother that you asked her for a Blessing is not at all necessary, but it is not even advisable. Even if your relationship with your mother is very trusting, this should be your little secret.
Your letter is enough for mom to hear you.
First of all, you need to choose a time and place so that no one disturbs you while writing the letter. Place a photo of your mother on the table, and if there is no photo, imagine that your mother is sitting opposite you and you want to talk to her. You can light a candle. Read the “Appeal-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance,” and with tenderness begin your letter: “Hello, Mom! I am writing to you from far away... I am writing you this letter with a request: give me, mother, a blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing...” And then you must write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason. These can be grievances and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write must be written.
Such a letter is not easy to write, and a lot of tears can be shed. Cry without holding back - these are tears of relief. If you want, you can tell your mom about your life, your joys and sorrows. When you write, do not pay attention to mistakes, the beauty of your handwriting and the completeness of your thoughts. No one will ever read this letter, and you don’t need to re-read it either. Your main task is to throw out everything unspoken on paper in order to restore and establish the finest threads of your relationship with your mother.
You need to write until your thoughts dry up, and when your hand, as if by itself, writes “I bless you.”
When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it and write down the date and time you finished writing.

What you need to do for the Mother's Blessing to come into your life
It must be remembered that the Blessing of the mother is directly related to Responsibility for one’s life. Our life is structured in such a way that not everyone is ready to take 100% responsibility for all the circumstances of their life. Most often, a person avoids responsibility because he is afraid of the consequences of his decisions. As a rule, he thinks that he will be responsible for all his actions and bear the burden of guilt.
I would like to remind you that responsibility is completely unrelated to the concepts of “response” and “guilt”. Responsibility is the energy of life. It is associated with self-confidence and the energy of life that a person receives at birth.
It is important to note here that how a person manages these energies will determine how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission.
Imagine that you are almost at your destination. You can already see the city, but you do not have enough gasoline to enter this city. You can ask drivers passing by for some gas, but if they give you their gas, they won't have enough to get there themselves. Typically, few people will stop to help you.
For the Mother’s Blessing to come into your life, you must not waste your responsibility for seven days. In doing so, try to follow these recommendations:
1. Do not feel sorry, do not blame or reproach others.
2. Write down all the things you need to do. And do 2-5 things a day, so that no more than three remain.
3. Say out loud every day:
I am completely responsible for all the circumstances of my life
4. Stop doubting. I did it because I did it. If you doubt your actions, then it is fear, guilt or resentment.
5. Trust people more and stop controlling them. The phrase helps: “The less I interfere, the better it turns out.”
6. In the evening before going to bed, read the “Address-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance.”

How to track the receipt of the Blessing
In life, everything obeys certain cycles. Thus, the grounding of material well-being occurs according to the 777 system. In this case, it is seven days, seven weeks and seven months.
Therefore, we will track three stages.
First stage
On the seventh day after writing the letter, you need to track what will happen to the material side of your life.
If your mother responded to your request and gave you her Blessing, then on the seventh day you will receive profit in your home. It can be expressed in money, valuable gifts and the like. If a debt was repaid to you, or you received money, or you found a penny on the street, or maybe you were given change in a store or given theater tickets - all this can be a sign that there is a Blessing.
It is very important to track what came first - profit or loss. If you are asked to borrow money, this is considered a sign that there is no Blessing.
And there is no need to specially adjust the “profit” situation - this will not help you!
Attention!
If there are no signs confirming the Blessing, or there have been no changes in material values on this day, you need to write the letter again.
Don't stop halfway!
By delaying writing the letter again, you can incur LOSSES!
So, let’s say, on the seventh day after writing the letter, you made a profit - this means that the first stage of the Blessing has passed.
Second phase
Now we need to track the seventh week from the day the letter was written.
If the maternal Blessing is really given to you, then in the seventh week your expenses for this week will be much less than your income. Again, not because you will save on purpose, but because circumstances will turn out that way.
The income may exceed all your expectations.
Well, what if the seventh week did not bring you the desired results? On the contrary, you were asked to borrow money and the beggars did not pass you by either, or circumstances forced you to spend a lot. Don’t worry - our mothers very rarely “let us go” into an independent life at our first request! Be patient and, without delaying things, write to your mother again and ask for Blessings for life. Let the letter be shorter each time - it doesn’t matter. The main thing is that your request must be made in writing, and also everything that was not once said by you must be “poured” onto paper to the last drop.
Each such letter must be burned.
Third stage
After a successful seventh week, you need to track the seventh month from the day you wrote your letter to your mother. The seventh month may not bring a lot of money, but if you really receive the Blessing, this month will somehow lay a solid foundation for your well-being. This could be a new promising acquaintance, a lucrative offer of cooperation, a promotion, etc. And you will feel that you are standing firmly on your feet.

Tags: mother, Orthodoxy

For children... Mother's prayer.

...here the Angel opened his wings to protect you, my child!

“I gave you life, but I can’t live it for you...

I can teach you a lot, but I can’t make you learn everything.

I can point you in the right direction, but I cannot choose it for you.

I can give you complete freedom, but I won’t be able to pay for it instead of you.

I can tell you what is good and what is bad, but I cannot make decisions for you.

I can buy you beautiful things, but I cannot provide you with inner beauty.

I can offer you advice, but I cannot take it for you.

I can give you my love, but I cannot force it on you.

I can teach you to share, but I cannot force selflessness.

I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to respect anyone.

I can give you advice about your friends, but it is not for me to choose them for you.

I can give you advice about intimate relationships, but I cannot keep you pure.

I can talk to you about alcoholic drinks, but I can’t say “No” for you.

I can warn you against using drugs, but I cannot prevent you from using them.

I can tell you about high goals, but I cannot achieve them for you.

I can teach you kindness, but I cannot force you to show it.

I can warn you against sin, but I cannot impose morality on you.

I can pray for you, but I cannot force you to walk in God's ways.

I can talk to you about how to live, but I cannot give you eternal life.

But I know that what is impossible for me is possible for God.

And I ask him the impossible."

The soul is a piece of GOD THE CREATOR!
And if WE - having reached the level of OUR SOUL in PRAYER ASK -
WE CREATE A FUTURE WITH SOUL for EVERYONE, for parents, for ourselves, children, grandchildren, friends and acquaintances.

Here I (as a PERSONALITY) am far from GOD (from MY SOUL).
Prayer is similar to the action of the Rooster - it crows, and then at least it doesn’t dawn.

Sorry for being harsh.
But the goal of the community is to teach UNITY WITH YOUR SOUL, with GOD in YOURSELF, and to CREATE in UNITY from the position of the POWER OF THE CREATOR, and not to beg for good from some GOD artificially removed from us.

The truth is there too: WE ENTERED THE SOUL - we talked, enjoyed ourselves (swallowed and left) - and again into the ordinary dullness, and not to spiritualize our CONSCIOUSNESS forever, to realize our SOUL.
But there is hope that if you often enter your SOUL, then in the end you will remain there - you will merge with it.

Once again, sorry for the harshness.

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Ayurveda says that speech is a manifestation of prana.

Prana is life force, Universal energy.

The more prana, the healthier, more successful, charismatic and harmonious a person is.

So, first of all, prana is consumed when a person speaks.

Especially when he criticizes, condemns, makes claims, or swears.

According to statistics, 90% of all quarrels occur because we talk badly about someone.
The most successful people are those who speak pleasantly and know how to control their speech.

The scriptures say that ascetic speech consists of the ability to speak the truth in pleasant words.

Karma is determined by our speech.

It is important to remember that if we criticize someone, we take on negative karma and bad character traits of that person.

This is how the law of karma works.

And we also take the qualities of the person we praise.
The one who criticizes us gives us his positive karma and takes away our bad.

Why do people who speak little and thoughtfully achieve more?

They don't lose energy.
Another simple rule related to speech is that if we have done something good to someone and boasted about it to others, then at that moment we lose the positive karma and all our fruits of piety that we earned by this act.

Braggers achieve little.

Therefore, we should never boast about our achievements, because at this moment we lose all the fruits that we have previously earned.

Thoughts determine speech, so it is important not to think badly of anyone.

The more chaotic thoughts we have in our heads, the more they appear on the tongue and the more chaotic our speech will be.

He who thinks clearly speaks clearly.

There is another level - learning to accept criticism.

One of the qualities of the mind is that it is able to justify itself in any situation.

The lower a person's level, the more excuses you hear from him.

Our children are another thread connecting us to God!

An empty bed and a crumpled diaper,
The journey of life has been covered in just a month.
Well, why aren't you sleeping again, girl?
What night don't you let me sleep!?
Stubborn cry and wet eyelashes,
It’s dark outside the window, but I can’t calm my daughter down,
Well, my child, can’t you sleep,
What do you want to tell me, dear?
Perhaps fear has disturbed my heart,
The mother feels and understands everything.
Your misfortune, although it is impossible,
I wanted to take it if I could!
Oh, if I were your destiny
Could cleanse from human evil,
Risking my life for you,
I would do everything, I would give all my strength!
But there is such a force in the Universe,
Which is even greater than maternal powers,
Protector of the offended and weak,
Who wouldn’t ask her in trouble!
"God loves us, don't be afraid, my baby,
His Love is the strongest!"
The mother approached the open window:
"Now I will ask Him!"
Dawn will tiptoe through the window,
The baby sleeps, snoring into his nose,
The mother prays with tired lips,
Salty and wet with tears.

HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR BODY

Fear arises not because of death, but because of an unlived life...

* How to achieve harmony of soul and body? First of all, you need to think about the body. The body is your base, your foundation, your foundation. Not loving your body means destroying yourself, means becoming schizophrenic, becoming unhappy, giving birth to hell. You are the body. Of course, you are more than your body, but that “more” will come later. You are, first of all, the body.
* The body is your fundamental truth, never be against it. If you are against the body, then you deny God. When you disrespect your body, you lose contact with reality, because it is the body that provides this contact. Your body is a bridge. Your body is a temple. The body is great. This is the greatest secret.
* However, you were taught to neglect the body. Sometimes you are fascinated by the mystery of a tree, a green tree, or the mystery of the moon and the sun, or a flower, but you are never fascinated by your own body. But your body is the most complex phenomenon in life. Not a single flower, not a single tree has such a beautiful body as yours. Neither the moon, nor the sun, nor the star have developed such a mechanism as you have.
* You were taught to appreciate the beauty of a flower, a simple flower. You were taught to appreciate the beauty of a tree, a simple tree. You were taught to appreciate the beauty of stones, rocks, mountains, rivers, but you were never taught to respect your own body, you were never taught to be fascinated by it. Yes, it is very close, and therefore it is easy to forget about it. But the body is the most beautiful phenomenon.
* When someone admires a flower, people exclaim: “How aesthetic!” And when someone admires the beautiful face of a woman or a man, people say: “This is lust.”
* If you go up to a tree, stand next to it and look at the flower in fascination - with your eyes wide open, absorbing all the charm of the flower with all your senses, then people will consider you a poet, an artist, a mystic. But if you approach a woman or a man, and look at the woman with respect and admiration with wide open eyes, reveling in her beauty with all your senses, then the police will be interested in you.
* First of all, you need to learn to respect your body, forget all the nonsense about the body that you were taught. Otherwise you will never turn yourself outward, never turn yourself inward, never go beyond yourself. Start from the beginning. The body is your beginning.
* The body must be cleansed of any violence. The body needs great catharsis. The body became poisoned because you were against it, you suppressed it in every possible way. Your body gets by on the bare minimum, that's why you're unhappy. Bliss is possible only when you live to the maximum, and not otherwise. Bliss is possible when you live intensely. How can you live intensely if you are against the body? A man leads a drab life, the fire of his life barely glows. The fire actually went out. This fire has been destroyed for centuries. It needs to be rekindled. First you need to cleanse your body, cleanse your body of all types of violence. It is necessary to resume the flow of his energy, to eliminate all clamps.
* It is very difficult to meet a person who does not have energy clamps, it is difficult to find someone whose body is not tense. Relax, tension only blocks your energy. Because of this tension, the free flow of energy becomes impossible.
* Why are all people so uptight? Why is it so hard to relax? Have you seen a cat sleeping, dozing in the afternoon? How simply and how skillfully he relaxes. Can't you relax the same way? You toss and turn in bed, unable to shake off the tension.
* From childhood, man was taught to live in tension. A person does not breathe because of fear. Because of the fear of sexuality, people stopped breathing, because when you breathe deeply, the breath goes directly to the center of sex and hits it, massages it from the inside, excites it. Because adults teach that sex is dangerous, all children begin to breathe shallowly, at chest level. The child never breathes deeper, because suddenly he can feel excited: sexual interest appears, and with it fear. If you breathe deeply, sexual energy is released.
* Sexual energy needs to be released. It should flow freely throughout the body. Then your body will become orgasmic. And you are afraid to breathe, so afraid that almost half of your lungs are filled with carbon dioxide... There are six thousand alveoli in the lungs, and, as a rule, three thousand of them are never cleared, always remaining filled with carbon dioxide. That's why you look so dull, that's why you lack vitality, that's why awareness is difficult. Carbon dioxide is not needed by humans; it must be constantly removed by the lungs. You need to breathe in new, fresh air, you need to breathe in more oxygen. Oxygen will ignite your inner fire, oxygen will cause you to be engulfed in flames. But the oxygen will also set your sexuality on fire.
* The whole point is that when you are absolutely free, you can achieve a lot. Only very, very sexy and energetic people can be intelligent. Moreover, the postulate that sex was sinful dealt a blow to the intellect, and this blow must have been very strong. When the flow of sexual energy has no barriers, when there are no conflicts in the sexual sphere, when you develop your sexuality, your mind functions optimally. You will be intelligent, aware, alive. You need to make friends with the body.
* Do you feel your own body, or do you feel like you are in a dead crypt? That's what's happening. People are almost in a frozen state, they carry their body with them like a coffin. It is heavy, it is uncomfortable, it interferes with the perception of reality. If you allow the electricity of your body to flow from your toes to your head, if you give energy, your bioenergy, complete freedom, then you will become a river, you will not feel the body at all. You will become almost incorporeal. If you don't fight the body, you will become incorporeal. Conversely, the body will become a burden if you fight with it. And if you carry your body like a burden, then you will never enter the kingdom of God.
* It won't be easy to start respecting your body. You judged him, always found faults in him. You never appreciated him, you never loved him; and suddenly you wanted a miracle, for someone to come and love your body. If you yourself cannot love him, then no one will love him, since your vibrations will repel people.
* You can fall in love with a person who loves himself, but not vice versa. First you need to love yourself, only from this center can another love grow. You don't love your body. You hide it in a thousand ways. You hide the smell of your body, you wrap it in clothes, you hide your body under jewelry. You are trying to create some kind of beauty that you always think you are missing; thus you become artificial.
* Once you start accepting yourself, you will become beautiful. When you are delighted with your body, you will admire others too. Many will fall in love with you because you are in love with yourself. Now you are dissatisfied with yourself. You know that you are ugly, you know that you are disgusting, terrible. This self-image will only push people away, your self-image will not help them fall in love with you, they will shun you. Even when they approach you, they will feel your vibrations and move away.
* There is no point in running after someone. The need to chase after someone only appears when we don’t love ourselves. Otherwise, someone would have appeared in your life. It’s impossible not to fall in love with you if you love yourself. Love your body, make friends with it, honor it, respect it, take care of it, it is a gift from God. Treat it well and it will reveal great secrets to you. Your entire development will depend on how you treat your body. Elena Mag-TAROLOGIST

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Below is some of the material from the book, full information is in the book.

MOTHER'S BLESSING

At birth, each person is given 100% of life energy.
Each person has their own amount of energy. It depends on the mission of a person and his calling and on how a person uses these energies and how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission.
Young children give their energy to their mother, because due to weakness they cannot take responsibility for their lives. As a rule, the child gives the mother 90% of the responsibility, leaving 10% only to remind herself. The life energy of a child is what allows a mother to stay awake at night rocking her baby. These are the forces of a mother who is worried about the life of her child.
Growing up, the child learns independence and gradually “gains” percentages.
BLESSING is the RETURN by a mother to her child of all his LIFE ENERGY, which the child transferred to her at birth.
By the age of eight, a child is ready to take full responsibility for his life. At this age, the mother must give a blessing to the child, and until the age of fourteen he learns how to use the energy of life. Usually, at this age, boys are trained in martial arts and “male” housework. They learn to protect themselves and others, to repair, build, invent. Girls at this time, like Cinderella, undergo “practice”, learning how to run a household and keep things clean.
It is at this age that children best learn how to take responsibility for their lives and learn to take risks.
At fourteen years of age, a child becomes an adult. He takes the path of vocation.

Well, if the mother did not give all responsibility to the child in time, then she continues to live his life.

You know those over-aged children who practically don’t live. They give the energy of their lives not only to their parents, but also to everyone around them.

We have been told since childhood that to live a happier and more fruitful life, we need to have self-confidence and the right mindset. And we all know from childhood that the simple desire to succeed and live more fruitfully is often not enough. Of course, we experience joyful excitement when we are told: “All you have to do is make a firm decision to change your life, and then you will achieve what you want.”

Unfortunately, the next day or week later, most of us forget about our good intentions and fall back into old negative habits.

Resolving to succeed and live a more productive, creative life is not enough because it does not address the core of the problem, which is faulty perception.

If a person wants to change something in his life, first of all he needs to receive his mother’s Blessing for life, otherwise his attempts will end in failure every time.

Maternal blessing is the most powerful amulet; it is believed that a person blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable. Her love protects from negative influences.

But why doesn’t a mother today give a Blessing for the life of her child?

Many women answered this question that they knew nothing about it. But that's only half the story. The main thing is that many mothers do not want to let their children go, just as many children do not want to become adults and take responsibility for their lives.

Today, every person, having adopted this technique, can receive the Mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity, and every mother can bless her children.

Having received the Blessing, you will see with your own eyes changes for the better in your life.

You can receive the Mother's Blessing in three ways:

1. the mother gives the Blessing to her child verbally - “eye to eye”
2. mother gives a written Blessing to her child
3. The child himself takes a written Blessing from the mother
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Verbal Blessing of the mother - “eye to eye”

If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this.

The blessing is like first communion, so prepare it like a celebration. You can buy a gift, set a festive table.

First you need to read “A mother’s prayer for her child”:

All-merciful Lady, Most Holy Lady, Mother of God, my undoubted One of the Boundless and Supermundane Worlds! Hallowed be Thy Name and Creation with the power and Glory of Hope! The covers of Your Love are spread over the World. In Your mercy, have mercy on my child (name).
O Great, One, Creator, Almighty Creator of Heaven and Earth, Lord of the Sacred Fire, in the Name of Christ and by the power of the Love of Christ, forgive all his (her) sins, voluntary and involuntary, committed by him (her) before You.
Blessed Mother of God, Mother of new spiritual birth, guide him (her) on the True Path, and enlighten him (her), and enlighten him (her) with Your Light for the salvation of the Soul and the healing of the Body.
God! Bless him (her) in the house, near the house, in the field, at work, on the road and in every place of Your possession. Queen Sovereign of the World, protect him (her) under the protection of Your Saints from a flying bullet, from an arrow, a knife, a sword, poison, fire, a flood, from a mortal wound and from a vain death.
Lord, protect him (her) from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles, evils and misfortunes. Heal him/her from all diseases and cleanse him/her from all filth. Ease his (her) mental suffering and sorrow. Grant him (her) the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health and chastity, and give him (her) the Blessing for a pious family life and pious childbearing.
God! Grant me a parental Blessing for my child in the coming mornings, days and evenings, as well as nights, for the sake of Your Name. For Your Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen.

Then you need to think through the wishes of your child.

Whatever you wish at this moment will definitely come true. Therefore, formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities, not to build his life according to your plan, because you are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes! Please do not wish anything specific, for example: “I wish you to have a higher education.” Maybe your child won’t want to have it, or maybe, on the contrary, he will want to have several different ones, but you have limited him in advance. Wishes that do not take away freedom of choice can be:
I wish you to be, live, act, be able and have
I wish you to live in happiness and joy and have harmonious relationships with other people
I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you
I wish you to receive satisfaction while pursuing your creative destiny
I wish you to love and be loved
I wish you to have a source of strength and harmony in your heart and mind
I wish you to be confident in yourself
I wish you to have free will
I wish you to be able to breathe fully and freely
I wish you to have an easy financial life
I wish you to have enough strength, energy and wisdom
I wish you to have the opportunity (ability) to always get to the right place at the right time
I wish you to be generous, accepting your generosity entirely and with joy
I wish you to have the ability to trust people
I wish you to have enough time, energy, wisdom, money to fulfill all your desires
I wish you that your life flow heals every cell of your body
I wish you to be an expression of the Divine Origin of life in all its greatness
I wish you to be ready to accept the best
I wish you to enjoy yourself and accept yourself as you are
I wish you everything that the Lord, that the Lord wishes for you, etc.

So, think carefully about what you would like to wish for your child and remember these wishes. At the moment of Blessing, they don’t read anything from a piece of paper!

Standing in front of the child and looking into his eyes, the mother says:

I give you son (daughter) _________ (name) my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity and I wish you... (here you say everything that your soul desires for the child).

After the Blessing is given, you need to read the “Prayer after the Blessing of the Child” for seven days, preferably in the morning and evening:

Lord Almighty and Mother of God!
Lead me into the image of Heavenly Motherhood. Communicate true Love, Mercy, Long-suffering in the upbringing of my children, whom I completely entrust to Your Most Holy Will and place in Your care. May my maternal Blessing for Life, Abundance and Prosperity merge with yours.
Blessed Mother of God, Mother of new Spiritual birth, heal the wounds of Your children with Your Motherly Love, so that they may be healed and come to life in the Lord.
Heavenly Eminence, Mother of God, I give my son (daughter) _____ (name) to the Altar of Thy holy Love without reserve.
Oh, All-Blessed One, help me to see clearly in suffering, to sanctify the sacrifice and to bless the Path. Amen.
May the Lord protect you! Good morning!

This prayer will help the mother let her child go. This condition is very unusual for the mother and sometimes even causes slight discomfort for a while.

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If it is not possible to give the mother’s Blessing verbally – “eye to eye,” then the child is blessed in writing.
After reading “A Mother’s Prayer for a Child,” the mother writes a letter to her child:

“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you... (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

Burn the written letter.
Remember the date and time when you gave a written Blessing to your child.
After the Blessing is given, you need to read the “Prayer after the Blessing of the Child” for seven days, preferably in the morning and evening.

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Many tried to receive the Blessing by talking to their mother. But, as a rule, such a Blessing did not produce results. If you definitely want to receive a Blessing from your mother personally, then you will have to express to her face both all the good and all the bad that you have accumulated over many years. And then she, in a “good” mood, should give you her Blessing.

Read the Appeal Prayer and the Guidance Prayer.

Begin your letter: “Hello, Mom! I am writing to you from far away... I am writing you this letter with a request: give me, mother, a blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing...”

And then you must write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason. These can be grievances and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write must be written. Such a letter is not easy to write, and a lot of tears can be shed. Cry without holding back - these are tears of relief. If you want, you can tell your mom about your life, your joys and sorrows.

When you write, do not pay attention to mistakes, the beauty of your handwriting and the completeness of your thoughts. No one will ever read this letter, and you don’t need to re-read it either. Your main task is to throw out everything unspoken on paper in order to restore and establish the finest threads of your relationship with your mother.
You need to write until your thoughts dry up, and when your hand, as if by itself, writes “I bless you.”

When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it and write down the date and time you wrote the letter to your mother.

What you need to do for the Mother's Blessing to come into your life

It must be remembered that the Blessing of the mother is directly related to Responsibility for one’s life.

Our life is structured in such a way that not everyone is ready to take 100% responsibility for all the circumstances of their life. Most often, a person avoids responsibility because he is afraid of the consequences of his decisions. As a rule, he thinks that he will be responsible for all his actions and bear the burden of guilt.

Responsibility is completely unrelated to the concepts of “response” and “guilt”. Responsibility is the energy of life. It is associated with self-confidence and the energy of life that a person receives at birth.

For the Mother’s Blessing to come into your life, you must not waste your responsibility for seven days. In doing so, try to follow these recommendations:

1. Do not feel sorry, do not blame or reproach others.
2. Write down all the things you need to do. And carry them out.
3. Say out loud every day: I am completely responsible for all the circumstances of my life.
4. Stop doubting. I did it because I did it. If you doubt your actions, then it is fear, guilt or resentment.
5. Trust people more and stop controlling them. The phrase helps: “The less I interfere, the better it turns out.”
6. In the evening before going to bed, read the “Address-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance.”