For children      08/12/2023

25 years since the wedding, what a wedding. Twenty five wedding years

Year after year, the feelings of two loving people become stronger and stronger, the union becomes stronger. Therefore, the names of wedding anniversaries become more fundamental over time. From chintz wedding to wood, nickel, cast iron, and finally silver. The twenty-fifth wedding anniversary acquires the strength of a noble metal.

Ancient customs and traditions

The silver ring is the main symbol of this wedding anniversary. The husband and wife should give each other silver rings, which should be worn on the middle finger of the right hand, without removing them, next to the wedding rings.

Another ancient tradition is morning washing from a silver jug. If you don’t have such utensils, you can put a silver spoon in the prepared water. Washing takes place in 3 stages, each one must be done with the help of the other spouse. The first ablution washes away years from a person and gives youth, the second takes away worries and sorrows, and the third prepares for the beginning of a new stage of life. After this, the dishes with the remaining water must be placed in the open air - the water, evaporating, will take away all the troubles and sorrows.

Previously, after the wedding, three bottles of wine were put into storage, which were opened on the day of the silver jubilee. The first bottle was intended for the husband, the second was placed on the festive table for the first toast, and the third was to be drunk by the spouses in the evening, when they were left alone.

How to celebrate a silver wedding

This worthy anniversary must be celebrated in a big way. If you have the desire and opportunity, you need to invite as many friends and relatives as possible and arrange a noisy celebration with toasts, kisses and competitions, just like at a real wedding. When setting the wedding table, it is advisable to use silverware, and for decoration - silver ribbons, flowers plated with silver varnish.

What to give for a silver wedding

Invited guests should not skimp on gifts on such a holiday. The value of gifts should be in harmony with the value of a twenty-five year relationship. Classic gifts for this anniversary are silver products: jewelry, dishes, souvenirs.

For women, silver bracelets, pendants, watches, and manicure sets are suitable. The spouse will like men's accessories - a silver cigarette case, a lighter, an elegant pen, a ring or cufflinks. Crockery and silverware are always a valuable and meaningful gift for a silver wedding.

You can give a photograph of a married couple together, framed in a silver frame. Genealogy in a silver frame is also a relevant and original gift.

A good option is a silver-plated table or wall clock with engraving, a floor vase coated with silver, a silver tray. A symbolic gift would be a silver cup or medal as a prize for such a long life together. The presentation of such gifts should be accompanied by a solemn speech.

25 years of marriage, a quarter of a century of marriage, is usually called the silver wedding. This is not just a long period of time, most of which two people spent under one roof - they ate together, slept, watched movies, went to the store and made plans for the future. This date is primarily an indicator of such qualities of spouses as patience, respect, willingness to compromise, mutual assistance and understanding, and even friendship.

Love is a multifaceted feeling and capable of transformation. If at the beginning of a relationship this is usually passion or at least sexual attraction to each other, then at the turn of a quarter of a century it manifests itself in a completely different way. By this time, the husband and wife fully justify the popular proverb, which characterizes them as follows: “One Satan.” Spouses become best friends and truly family; without acquiring such shades of relationships, marriage does not survive for such a long time.

What kind of wedding is this?

25 years - silver wedding. This name for half a century of family life dates back more than one or two centuries; the roots of the holiday go back to the Early Middle Ages, to those times when the institution of the family, so carefully nurtured by the Christian religion of all denominations, was already quite strong and truly became a value and one of the pillars of society .

The names of weddings did not appear by chance; they were formed by the type of material of gifts for spouses. For example, on the first anniversary they gave simple “consumable” fabric and products made from it - the wedding began to be called calico.

And the type of gifts and what they were made of, in turn, determined not the number of years lived, but the needs of the family at the current stage of life. For example, at a “leather” wedding, families of both ordinary people and feudal lords most of all needed harnesses, elements of tools and clothing made from this material, and even hanging belts capable of holding a cradle with a baby.

Of course, the longer people lived in the world, the less they needed “consumable” gifts. Over the years, the need arose to acquire material assets that could emphasize the status of the family, its position in society and, of course, be passed on by inheritance.

That is why the wedding anniversary at 20 years was called “porcelain”, and at 25 - “silver”.

Are there any traditions?

Each holiday has its own traditions, and the 25th wedding anniversary is no exception. There are quite a lot of different features of celebrating this date; literally every village had its own customs for celebrating this day.

Common traditions found almost everywhere include the following:

  • the beginning of the day is a kiss: it was believed that if one of the spouses woke up earlier, got up and did not kiss the other half before getting up, then joyless and difficult times would come for the family;
  • washing - should be done together and use “silver” water, this was a ritual washing away of all grievances, secret discontent and complaints, everything bad that happened over the past years;
  • the presence of sweets on the table: sweets had to be present in the diet throughout the entire time, and not just during the evening feast.

The wedding anniversary - 25 years - has many more historical customs, but in modern life most of them are both irrelevant and difficult to implement. But today's realities have added a lot of new things to the ancient customs, which did not spoil the holiday, but, on the contrary, expanded its scope and made it one of the most desirable for all married couples.

Modern customs of the holiday

The main customs of celebrating this anniversary that have already become traditional are the repetition of the wedding ceremony and, of course, going on a romantic trip.

For the first time, a husband and wife from Texas celebrated a quarter of a century of marriage in this way back in 1960. Local newspapers wrote about this, praising the original idea of ​​the celebration and the bride’s outfit. But the credit for the fact that the option of holding the anniversary was picked up all over the world belongs not to the press, but to local television, which made a large hour-long film and a number of news stories telling how all the guests who were at the original wedding were gathered, how the costumes were thought out, and the most important thing is how permission was obtained for a repeat wedding ceremony.

Americans were moved by looking at their television screens, and the ratings of a small channel from Dallas rose to incredible heights. European television companies drew attention to this nonsense, and the story of the heroes of the day has already captivated viewers on the other side of the ocean.

It is possible that the 25th wedding anniversary of the family from the Texas ranch was celebrated in this way, but this incident gave rise to the widespread custom of celebrating the anniversary in this way.

What should children do?

Unlike the porcelain anniversary, the silver one not only allows for the active participation of children in preparing the celebrations, but also welcomes it.

Children can participate both financially and act as direct organizers of the holiday. The most important condition for their participation is maximum attention to the wishes of the parents and the implementation of exactly the celebration scenario that the older generation prefers, and not imposing their own vision.

Traditionally, it is children who purchase silver rings for their parents; this has been the custom since the origins of the holiday. This tradition should not be neglected, and everything else depends only on the celebrants’ own capabilities, imagination and desires.

How to congratulate your husband?

25th wedding anniversary is a reason to surprise, but to surprise on a large scale. This is not the day when you can scatter playful notes around the apartment or hide funny trinkets in the most unexpected places.

A gift to a spouse from a woman, in addition to its tangible nature, must also correspond to the concept of being intended only for the husband. That is, you cannot give, for example, a silver ashtray if both people smoke or someone living under the same roof with the celebrants. You should not give anything that your spouse does not use. For example, a person who has been smoking cigarettes all his life does not need to be given a silver-plated pipe as a gift, but a cigarette case or lighter is quite suitable.

That is, on this day a woman should give a gift to a man, and not to an abstract spouse created over the years by her ideas and interpretations. A gift should tell a person that he is loved and important, that his desires and needs are attentive to, and that he is caring about the little things.

If the choice is difficult, or it is unpleasant for a woman to give something that her husband dreams of, then silver cufflinks would be an ideal option. It is advisable to add a new shirt to them; this will allow you to dress your husband up for the gala evening in the same style as you.

How to congratulate your wife?

What to give a woman for her 25th wedding anniversary is one of the nightmares of men. The stronger half of humanity often leaves the choice of a gift for the last few days and ends up buying the first thing that comes to hand.

The secret of a good gift is simple. The gift must be made of silver, intended exclusively for personal use and be accompanied by flowers. In principle, the gift may not be made of silver, but it may contain an element made of this material; in the most extreme case, it may be complemented by a trinket made of metal.

What can't be given?

Congratulations on your wedding day on 25 years of marriage completely exclude the following types of gifts:

  • Appliances;
  • gadgets;
  • items for one of the family members;
  • jewelry, with the exception of those given by spouses to each other and rings purchased by children;
  • furniture;
  • alcohol and food, even if it is a bottle of rare wine, the only one in the world.

The gift from those invited to the celebration must be significant, contain silver details or be made entirely of this metal, not consumable and intended for both spouses. A traditional set is a good solution, as are silver cutlery, because this is how family silver appeared in homes.

Nowadays people often give money, this is a good option, you just need to format such a gift correctly - the envelope should be silver, with a postcard inserted inside containing a laconic wish and signature. However, such a gift does not correspond to the traditions and foundations of the anniversary.

Do you need postcards?

A postcard is an indispensable and important element of congratulations. This is part of the gift that will be preserved and will remind the anniversaries of the person who congratulated them. But, unfortunately, it is precisely this that is often forgotten, both by those invited to the celebration and by professional holiday organizers.

“25th Wedding Anniversary” cards should be appropriate for the occasion. The best option would be a one-of-a-kind, handmade, elegant and simple greeting card, tucked into a matching envelope.

The congratulatory text should be short and concise, contain a list of wishes and a signature. Poetic texts are also acceptable, but they should not be formulaic. As a last resort, it is better to take an excerpt from a famous work that has a suitable meaning than to borrow lines from the Internet, which the celebrants themselves will certainly come across.

It is important to remember that the postcard is part of the present, and does not replace it at all.

What is important at a banquet?

The tradition of celebrating this day is to include sweets in the family’s diet. Therefore, a banquet in the form of a main course includes desserts, the main one of which is, of course, cake.

A cake for the 25th wedding anniversary is not the final and, in general, unnecessary part of the feast, as on the wedding day, but the apotheosis of the entire celebration. With a competent professional approach to organizing an anniversary feast, the menu will be quite light, regardless of what form the celebration is planned - a banquet, buffet, reception or some other form.

The cake does not appear at the end of the celebration, but at the beginning of its second part. The first half of the anniversary is devoted to gathering guests, presenting gifts, congratulatory speeches, 5-10 toasts and light snacks.

After this, it is time for the cultural program, which includes a demonstration of various moments in the life of the spouses, starting from the stage of their marriage. Of course, various competitions and other fun are allowed. This is a kind of intermission, during which you can go out, visit the sanitary room, have a smoke break, or just get some fresh air.

After the entertainment part, the cake appears. It must be a masterpiece, made in the appropriate style and not decorated with figures of the bride and groom. The right to cut remains with the celebrants, but only if the confectionery product is not made up of many different cakes, which is extremely popular in Europe. In this case, the heroes of the day simply take a cake.

The silver wedding is celebrated when the couple have lived together for a quarter of a century. During this time, relationships became harmonious, feelings became stable, and life without each other became impossible.

Silver symbolizes strength, precious nobility, and beauty. Also, people who managed to save their family after going through many obstacles are worthy of deep respect and admiration. They have the right to be proud of themselves.

Wedding traditions for 25 years of marriage

There are many traditions and rituals associated with this celebration. Many have come from ancient times, some are new, but already rightfully popular.

Silver wedding cake

  1. First kiss. The ritual is performed by the spouses in the morning. When they wake up, they should kiss and wish each other a good day. A 25th wedding anniversary is a good reason to add romance to everyday life.
  2. Washing. The ritual is done early. The “newlyweds” collect water together in a silver bowl and help each other wash. This is a long-standing custom. In the old days it looked a little different. Early in the morning, the couple took a large jug together and went to the river. Having collected water, they returned home and helped each other wash, pouring from the vessel. Moreover, this must be done three times. They say that the first ablution relieves fatigue, the second removes sadness and anxiety, and the third brings new joy. Could there be a greater gift for a silver wedding than such a romantic ritual? Afterwards, if there is water left, it needs to be put outside. It will evaporate, and with it everything bad from the spouses will go away. They say that the faster the moisture disappears, the happier the couple will be in the future.
  3. Parents' arrival. According to tradition, the mother and father must come to check whether the water in the vessel is dry and bless the children. If the container is still wet when they arrive, they must wait and then perform the blessing ceremony. Therefore, it is better to do the washing ritual a few hours before the arrival of your loved ones.
  4. Exchange of rings. This sacrament is the most important for the 25th wedding anniversary. Spouses should exchange silver rings as a sign that they have tender feelings for each other. The event is organized similarly to a wedding day. You can arrange it in the registry office, but a home environment is also quite suitable. The main thing is to bring it as close as possible to the celebration of twenty-five years ago. With the same witnesses, if possible, outfits, wedding glasses, first dance.

How to celebrate your twenty-fifth wedding anniversary?

You can celebrate this anniversary according to your own preferences and financial capabilities.

  1. You can invite your family and friends to the restaurant where a wedding was celebrated a quarter of a century ago. Such a silver wedding will undoubtedly be remembered for a long time.
  2. At home. This option is suitable for a married couple who values ​​family comfort and the warmth of home. You can simply gather your loved ones around the festive table and spend time in a relaxed atmosphere.
  3. Party. What does the time mean when the soul is young... For an energetic couple who has not lost their youthful enthusiasm, a themed party will be an excellent holiday.
  4. Romance. If the couple wants to dedicate the holiday to themselves, it is quite possible to organize a romantic trip to a restaurant or go on a trip for a couple of days.
  5. Wedding. In the case where, after living together for more than two decades, the spouses remain unmarried, this fact can be changed on the anniversary day. Then the silver wedding will not only be remembered for a lifetime, but will also become a new stage in family relationships.

What to give for your 25th wedding anniversary?

The twenty-fifth anniversary is a significant date, so what is given for a silver wedding
must be elegant and beautiful. Among gifts for 25 years of marriage, silverware is the leader. Although services, sets, sets are banal, if you make the appropriate engraving, the surprise will become very memorable.

Silverware for anniversary

Silver bracelet as a gift for my wife on her twenty-fifth wedding anniversary

Silver cufflinks for a husband for a silver wedding

Believers can be presented with the icon “Peter and Fevronia” in silver. Such a gift symbolizes love, devotion, and the importance of marriage. You can also give silver jewelry to husband and wife. But they must be paired.

The wife will be delighted to receive a large bouquet of roses, a beautiful silver brooch, earrings, pendant, ring or chain as a gift for her 25th wedding anniversary from her significant other.

The wedding died down, sparkled, the newlyweds saw off the last guests and were finally left alone. Quite imperceptibly, the first weeks of married life smoothly flow into years, and then into decades, and now the family is on the threshold of its 25th anniversary. How the silver wedding will go, what gift to give each other, who to invite to the family’s birthday - all this will have to be decided by the so-called newlyweds.

Why is the anniversary called that?

Twenty-five years of life together can rightfully be called the first significant event for any married couple. If two people have lived together for a quarter of a century, it means that they have managed to maintain love and mutual respect during this time. This day simply needs to be celebrated! To celebrate the anniversary of their marriage, spouses, as a rule, invite only family and closest friends.

A silver wedding is an important and festive event for the family. During this period, the two halves, who once met, managed to experience both the joys and hardships of family life. The children have already grown up, and perhaps there are grandchildren. On this date, spouses, trying to surround their other half with care and sensitivity, thereby revive the former romance in their relationship. Isn't this the best silver anniversary gift for each other?

Why is it that twenty-five years of marriage are usually called the silver wedding? The fact is that silver is considered a fairly hard and durable metal. Accordingly, this symbolizes the strength and stability of relationships. Spouses have long understood each other not only from the first word, but also from just one glance. Common habits and traditions emerged.

On this day, the spouses are full of pre-holiday worries, because everything happens exactly the same as 25 years ago. A silver wedding happens only once in a lifetime, and this event must be celebrated in a big way.

How to celebrate this holiday together?

A chic, loud wedding today is not always and not everyone can afford. Even some newlyweds, preparing to cross the threshold of the wedding hall for the first time, prefer to celebrate a family holiday either in a narrow circle or with just the two of them. If you calculate all the expenses for the celebration, you will notice that the family budget will suffer serious damage. And who would like a crowd of drunken revelers shouting “Bitter”?

Therefore, a wedding for two, away from numerous relatives, boring competitions, fuss and other routine, is winning more and more supporters. You can celebrate your family's birthday in a relaxed, inexpensive, but chic way! After all, a wedding is a solemn day only for two, and not for a huge number of relatives.

If the spouses are going to celebrate their marriage anniversary only among themselves, then they can arrange a romantic dinner by candlelight at home, book a table in a small cafe, or simply spend the whole day together, devoting it to each other. Although there are a number of options for celebrating a marriage anniversary:

  • a married couple can take a walk in the same place as 25 years ago;
  • It would be nice to take a trip to such romantic places as Rome, Paris, Venice;
  • you can organize a picnic in nature, where there will be only two guests;
  • It would be a good idea to arrange a joint viewing of photographs and videos from the very first wedding;
  • you can take a horseback ride, a hot air balloon flight or a short boat trip;
  • An interesting solution would be to visit a photo salon, theater and other cultural institutions together.

We invite relatives

Those who prefer not to have noisy gatherings can celebrate their anniversary in a close family circle. Moreover, such an event will allow you to communicate with your closest people, because in everyday life sometimes there is absolutely no time for meetings. In this case, the silver wedding can be celebrated as follows:

  • gather only your closest and dearest people at the family table;
  • organize a small picnic against the backdrop of a forest or pond;
  • rent a guest house outside the city for the weekend;
  • arrange a group visit to entertainment events (zoo, attractions);
  • play entertaining home games (lotto, Monopoly, forfeits, interesting board strategies and word guessing).

Traditions

  • Spouses can arrange a re-marriage, this will awaken the memory of the feelings that they experienced on their wedding day.
  • Church wedding. A silver wedding anniversary is considered the ideal day to seal your marriage before God.
  • Event in a restaurant. The method, of course, is banal, but it has long become traditional and beloved in terms of holding various celebrations.
  • A wedding anniversary can be celebrated in an unusual way. For example, throw a masquerade ball or organize a retro-style evening. In addition, you can invite your friends and family to a disco in the spirit of the 80s.

The tradition of celebrating wedding dates has existed for many years, and when preparing for the event, the following nuances must be taken into account.

  • Any date in family life has its own name, and therefore each year lived together is traditionally celebrated in accordance with the symbols inherent in the name of the date. For example, a chintz wedding, tin or silver.
  • Family birthdays can be celebrated both at home and in a restaurant. Depending on the location of the celebration, you can think about the theme of the event and the appropriate design of the hall.
  • Round wedding dates are usually celebrated more lavishly, so you need to decide on the number of guests. If the house is expected to be crowded, you will have to take care of the banquet hall.
  • Money problem. Whatever one may say, the scale of the solemn celebration of the silver anniversary directly depends on the availability of funds that the spouses are willing to spend on their wedding anniversary.

Since ancient times, there has been an interesting custom of washing. As soon as the spouses wake up, they must wash each other three times, and the water must first be steeped in a silver ladle or jug. It is believed that silver cleanses and expels all misfortunes, envy, and illnesses from the family.

It would also be a good idea to exchange silver rings. It is not necessary to choose elaborate options; the simpler the rings, the better. You should wear this type of jewelry for a year, then you can return to your usual rings.

When decorating a table, give preference to silver cutlery, and be sure to complement it with candlesticks made of the same material. You can put a beautiful silver service that will perfectly harmonize with the theme of the holiday.

Gift ideas for parents

What gift can children give to their parents for a silver wedding? Whether the surprise will be successful or not, it all depends on imagination and a great desire to please such loved ones. First of all, you need to think about colors. A beautiful lush composition will come in handy. You can, of course, stop there, but the “newlyweds” will be much more pleased if an invitation to a romantic dinner is added to the bouquet.

Tickets to the theater or to a movie show can also make spouses very happy. The practicality of a gift sometimes becomes an important aspect; an example for this could be a set of beautiful bed linen or decorative pillows with embroidered names of the “newlyweds”.

In addition, even the participation of children in the decoration of the holiday will be a pleasant surprise for the heroes of the occasion. Kids can draw beautiful pictures, take part in decorating the room, learn songs and rhymes, and make cards.

Cake is also a must-have gift. It is best to do it yourself, but you can also turn to a master who will make a real work of art. Place the number “25” in the middle of the cake.

Good gifts would be silverware, beautiful silver jewelry, cufflinks, lighters, and belts with silver buckles.

Options for original congratulations to friends

Surprises in the traditional style are very wonderful, but sometimes there is a desire to give something unique as a gift in order to cause a pleasant surprise among the wedding celebrants. It can be either a fun entertaining show or an evening dedicated to some topic that is close to everyone present. Gifts of this kind can be given not only by children or close relatives, but also by best friends.

Some unusual gift ideas might look like this.

  • You can stun the hosts of the evening and guests with stunning fireworks or a light or fire performance.
  • An excellent gift would be launching air lanterns. A soaring fiery heart surrounded by several small lanterns, which the guests and their spouses will launch together, will look amazing in the night sky.
  • Children and friends can jointly prepare a wedding ceremony at the registry office. True, it is advisable to notify the “young” about this in advance, so that on this special day they look as stunning as they did 25 years ago. A wedding march, an exchange of rings, and a kiss will help awaken slightly extinguished feelings and add romance. During the entire ceremony, congratulations to the newlyweds should be heard without stopping.
  • A vacation at a seaside or mountain resort, as well as walks along the quiet streets of one of the European cities, can help spouses surround themselves with an aura of love and former romance.
  • You can capture the beautiful moments of this special day with photography. This can be a studio shooting, or a visit from a master photographer to your home or to the bosom of nature.
  • A large, chic wedding cake with miniature figures of the “newlyweds” will also pleasantly surprise the hosts and guests of the evening.

A fairly common practical gift is household appliances. But in this case, it is better to consult with the celebrants in advance about the appropriateness of the gift. To ensure that the surprise remains so until the end, it will be easier to present a gift coupon.

If silver anniversaries have common hobbies, then you can give them a gift that meets the interests of both. For example, for theater fans it could be tickets to a fashionable performance, but for avid picnic lovers, a cooler bag, barbecue grill or grocery basket is suitable.

On the 25th year of married life, a silver wedding is necessarily celebrated. Over a quarter of a century, the marriage union has become harmonious, feelings have become stable, and existence without each other has become impossible. The anniversary symbolizes the silvered metal strength of the union, its nobility and beauty. A couple who manages to maintain a marriage, overcome obstacles and maintain love is worthy of compliments and can rightfully be proud of their achievement.

About the number 25

The number 25 is very controversial from the point of view of the science of numerology. The proximity of two numbers does not represent the best combination. “Two” is the Moon, and “five” is ruled by the planet Mercury. The Moon is neutral in relation to Mercury, but the warlike planet is opposed to the Moon in the most hostile way. What does this mean in light of the anniversary? It means that the unstable life cycle has ended. Having gone through contradictions, grievances and troubles, the couple learned to find compromises and get out of difficult situations with honor. With the help of your close friends and relatives, relationships become stable and strong. You can be proud of your achievements on the path to happiness and well-being. It is after this period that life experience comes that allows you to avoid quarrels and be more tolerant of others.

The magic of silver

The symbol of the anniversary is noble silver, which has the most magical properties of all metals. All religions of the world claim that silver is God's gift, many beliefs are associated with it; protective and healing properties are attributed to it. Let's watch a video in which we will learn many interesting facts about this precious metal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eq4kV9g9A4k In addition, metal is under the magical control of the Moon, carries great energy and protects against negativity. Due to this, it is in demand for the manufacture of jewelry, amulets, and dishes. The chemical element is capable of storing information about the owner’s state of mind, redistributing negative energy and is used to cleanse the aura. It is also a well-known antiseptic and water purifier. From the point of view of astrology - metal symbolizes purity of the soul, awakens sensitivity and helps control emotions.

The symbol of the solemn event is a silver ring, symbolizing the beauty, strength and nobility of relationships. This is not an ordinary ordinary gift, but a sign of the spouses’ gratitude to each other for patience, mutual understanding and care.

Traditions of the solemn day

The twenty-fifth anniversary of marriage is a serious anniversary, which should be celebrated in a solemn atmosphere, among close people. A chic party is a desirable event, but first of all, it is necessary to observe the wonderful traditions of the solemn day. By doing this you will pay tribute to folk wisdom and bring spirituality and deep symbolism to the celebration.

Washing

Traditionally, after waking up in the morning and kissing, the newlyweds must collect clean, preferably spring water in a silver bowl and begin ablution. Lovers wash each other three times, washing away sorrows, problems and experiences. After this, the spouses gently wipe each other with a towel and place the dishes with the remaining water in the sun until it evaporates completely. It is believed that all family misunderstandings and illnesses go away with evaporating water.

Exchange of rings

Immediately after ablution, the spouses exchange rings, which are placed on the middle finger of the right hand and worn until the golden wedding anniversary. Of course, the rings should be made of silver, and they should be made mysterious and unusual, perhaps with the help of engraving, the meaning of which will be clear only to lovers.

In this case, the gold rings are removed and stored in a box for a year, after which they can be worn on the next finger. The ceremony can be made solemn by inviting your closest and dearest people: parents, children, friends.

Evening tea

Important! The ritual can only be performed after all guests have left.. The wife must brew strong, fragrant tea, after which the newlyweds drink it while sitting at a table with uncleaned dishes. The ritual symbolizes comfort, warmth of relationships and confidence in a happy future, despite the bustle and troubles.

How to celebrate the occasion

You can celebrate your silver wedding according to a predetermined scenario, chosen to your taste and focusing on opportunities and circumstances.

  • A classic celebration - invite previous witnesses and guests to the same registry office and restaurant where the wedding took place. The event will be remembered for a long time, and all those invited will have something to remember and compare with;
  • Celebrate your anniversary at the dacha or at home in a close family circle. This option is for those who value family comfort and prefer a more relaxed environment;
  • Theme party. This option is suitable for energetic spouses who have not lost their youthful enthusiasm. The heroes of the occasion choose a theme and everyone dresses up in the chosen images: fairy-tale, fantastic or aristocratic;
  • Romantic celebration. There are couples who on a special day want to enjoy only themselves and their love. They can relax in an expensive restaurant, go on a trip to an exotic country, or visit the city of eternal love - Paris.

But no matter how the lovers celebrate the occasion, one tradition remains the apotheosis - the exchange of silver rings. The hero of the day can wear a white dress, and the spouse needs to thank his life partner for the years lived together by presenting a gift and flowers. A celebration would not be complete without a lush loaf or cake prepared to order. As in their youth, the spouses cut the dishes so that all those invited can taste them - together with the heroes of the day, they must share the joy for family happiness and mutual love.

What to give to the newlyweds

A gift for a silver anniversary should be distinguished by sophistication and beauty. to emphasize the strength of family ties and the couple’s ability to cherish love. Such an exquisite gift could be the icon “Peter and Fevronia” in a silver frame, personifying fidelity, love and the significance of marriage in Christian culture. And of course, traditionally, on such a significant day, the newlyweds are presented with products made of precious metal - jewelry, vases, figurines, dishes.

A favorite among gifts is silverware.

The first place is rightfully occupied by silver cutlery: forks, spoons, shot glasses, knives. The gift is standard, but necessary every day. If engraved, it will remind the couple of the special event for a long time.

The hit of the parade is an assortment of souvenirs: vases, cups, figurines.

The price of silver products is quite significant, so it is better to choose functional items that will add a special touch to the household’s life: milk jugs, coffee pots, trays.

Jewelry.

If you know that celebrants love silver, then feel free to give bracelets, pendants, and chains. In this case, there is a necessary condition - the gifts must be paired. Friends can present a tea or table set with a delicate silver pattern or luxurious silk bed linen, and relatives can present a honeymoon trip to warm countries.

Congratulations

I always want to congratulate my loved ones on their anniversary with memorable words. Living together is a huge mental work, searching for compromises and overcoming life's troubles.

Choose congratulations and toasts in advance and you will pleasantly surprise the heroes of the day. Today you can find a lot of options for every taste.

But the most important thing is not what the duration and form of the congratulation will be, but what feelings and emotions the congratulator will put into his greeting. It is important to remind the celebrants of their achievements, about the events experienced together and to sincerely wish the best!

Toasts

Prose

  • “We would like to congratulate you on a wonderful silver wedding day! Just as not every bird will fly to the middle of the Dnieper, not every married couple is able to overcome a journey of a quarter of a century. But you did it, you got there! You have a wonderful family, wonderful children. On the road, you did not lose your feelings, your kindness, your youthful enthusiasm. We saved our friends, parents and gained our love and pride for you!”
  • “A silver wedding is an extraordinary event and proof that the union of two loving hearts is as strong as magic metal. You convinced everyone that you can cherish and preserve feelings for a long time without spilling a single drop of the divine drink of love. You have exchanged anniversary rings, and we wish you that your future journey will be smooth, durable and beautiful, just like these jewelry. We wish you harmony, happiness, strong love. Bitterly!"

A silver anniversary happens once in a lifetime - and it is a confirmation of true feelings and a role model. Prepare in advance for the special event and do not forget about the traditions of this day. Congratulate yourself on your triumph - together you have reached a wonderful milestone in life - when you have known everything, learned everything, fulfilled your main mission - raised children and still have the strength for new achievements!